You and your best friend already have a great Chemistry, but now the chemicals are doing their work, and you’re feeling that attraction too.
Or maybe, you always had that special attraction towards your best friend, but now, it’s really strong, and the urge to ask them out is taking over.
But amidst all this, the one thing that could pry on your mind is how to ask out your best friend in such a way that it will not affect your Friendship, especially if they don’t have the same feelings towards you.
There Is A High Probability Of Being Turned Down
This is not to discourage you right from the start, but the thing is, in a lot of the cases, best friends find it very difficult to move beyond the just-friends or friends-for-life tag. If you are approaching your best friend with a dating idea in mind, be prepared to be turned down. This will help you avoid any feelings of rejection and still let you carry on as best friends.
Do It When You’re Sober
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Don’t blurt out your feelings to your best friend when you are drunk and have absolutely no control over what you’re saying. If you do that, your friend will probably think you’re not serious about it, or maybe have become too serious about it, and that could end up being overwhelming, or make them feel a little awkward. If you really want to talk about it, say it when you’re in your senses.
Give Those Subtle Signs
You can’t suddenly expect your best friend to take your proposal of dating seriously if you jump from being friends to asking them out. Create the setting. Maybe start flirting with them a bit first, here and there, so that they kind of get the hint that you are attracted to them as well and this is not just friendship.
Tell Them About Your Feelings Face To Face
Create a setting that is comfortable for you both, such as a café where you both can hear each other, instead of a club where you have to shout. Be natural, the way you both are as friends, and then tell them that this is something that is there on your mind, since you share such great chemistry, but this is your side of the story, and that you want to hear what’s on their mind too.
If your friend is clear this is just a friendship and nothing more, leave it at that and don’t try to ask them out repeatedly. Doing this can make it seem as if you’re begging for attention, and that could even affect the friendship. If you’re really into them, keep those flirty Subtle Signs on, but in limited amount.
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