Breaking up is a term you don’t really want to hear. But of late, does it seem that you and your date are always just fighting?
You may have thought that only those couples who are in serious or long-term relationships end up in those classic fights, but sometimes, it can also happen to those who are dating, and even when the date is pretty new as well.
So what are you two fighting about? If it is more of some of the points we share below, trust your instinct and your good reasoning, and move out.
One Of You Is Always Lying
You both are still dating and are not really bound to tell each other everything that you do in your time away from each other (unless of course you both decided to do so). But even then, even if you don’t have to give a time to time account of what you are doing. It is not right for either of you to lie about things. For instance, if one of you is regularly lying about who or where the last night or day was spent with, and if this is causing fights, then that’s an issue.
The Classic Clingy Runny Story
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One of you wants to live life and enjoy things the way they are, and that includes the dating phase too, while the other is already dreaming about long-term commitments and ever-afters and marriage and growing old together. Totally different things from the same relationship, right? If this is causing regular distress, maybe it’s time to take a break.
Is There Too Much Change Happening?
Is one of you constantly making the other give up on their dreams and adjust to the SO’s way of life and thinking? Has this been leading to too many missed opportunities and too many resentments? A healthy relationship, even in the dating phase, is one where both flourish and do their things, and are happy to be in each other’s company. But when that seems like a points game, where one of you is constantly adjusting and compromising, ask yourself if it is really worth it.
None of this means that you should just get up and walk out of a relationship. Any relationship takes time, even when you are just dating, and probably more so because you are getting to know someone right from the start. Try and resolve fights as best as possible and communicate, but if things don’t change, and if one of you is constantly unhappy, a breakup could be a good idea for both for now.
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