Loving someone may be a selfless act but it does not mean not having any self-respect. Adjustments and Compromise are required for a Relationship to work but till what level? Love comes with its complications and it is here that partners need to identify as to what extent, can they let certain things pass.
Here’s looking at things you cannot compromise on for a relationship
You may be the daughter or the son, there are certain responsibilities you have towards your parents and siblings and you cannot walk away from them for your happy ending. No good relationship will expect you to compromise on your duties as a child to fulfill its worth. Never let your love life dictate the terms of your commitment and duties towards your family.
Your personality is based on your value system and this value system is instilled through various virtues such as honesty, integrity, respect, creativity etc. If your relationship is questioning your virtues, you are probably in a wrong place. There is no relationship that can thrive on dishonesty or lack of respect and hence never let go of these for a person who expects you to change.
Your significant other may not be happy with your company but they can’t rule out your friends based on their dynamics. If they ask you to cut ties with your friends without a substantial reason, they are being unreasonable. You build a social life with a lot of efforts and compromising it for a relationship would be a big mistake. Never let your friendships die in the wake of a relationship.
Nobody said a successful person can’t be in a relationship. There’s no choice when it comes to love and Ambition. Both are equally important to shape you as a person and hence if a partner expects your ambition to take a back seat in front of them, they are wrong. In Chak De India, Sagarika Ghatge played a headstrong hockey player, who dumps her cricketer boyfriend when he asks her to leave her profession after they get married. Well, compromising on your ambition will only make you bitter inside and if it is against a relationship, it will be difficult to get past it happily.
You don’t have to please someone by changing who you are. Never let a relationship tell you that you are inferior and that you need an upgrade. If your partner expects you to completely change your appearance because they don’t like it, this is a huge compromise and it is going to make a huge hit to your self-worth. Love is all about accepting a person as they are without any compromises.
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