2018-05-09 17:29
Over the last few months, I've gone on a few dates.Guy who bragged about how his dog is a "chick magnet"Guy who had really long fingernails I couldn't help but stare atGuy who may have been… Read More
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2018-02-25 16:47
I haven't done much here because I've been working and traveling almost nonstop. I've talked to a few guys here and there. I've also stopped talking to a few guys here and there when they sa… Read More
2017-10-31 01:44
Yes, I went on that date. The date that I thought was two friends having dinner, not two people on a date. I was wrong. It was a date. He referred to it as a date and… Read More
2017-10-23 05:04
This guy texted me over the weekend and we're going out this week. I like that he seems like a happy positive guy even though he's had a rough year and got out of a serious relationshi… Read More
2017-10-19 00:43
This guy on a dating app asked me for my number. I gave it to him. He's sent me seven texts without me replying to one. I've been busy and forgot. Well, I wasn't goin… Read More
2017-10-13 05:03
The guy I ran into at the airport, I ran into him again, at the airport! We chatted for a few minutes. He wanted to do something this weekend, but I already have plans. He… Read More
2017-09-18 04:53
I went out with a guy I met online a few weeks ago. He seemed like a nice guy in person. I tried very hard to get past his height. He's much shorter than 5 feet and I'm sho… Read More
2017-09-16 16:39
Let's go back a month or so ago. The guy I ran into at the airport texted me, a lot. He's asked me out to lunch and we went. He's a nice guy who I see at work every now and… Read More
2017-07-31 20:10
I'm back from my long vacation where I visited four countries in Europe. I'm glad I had the opportunity to see new places, spend time with friends, and clear my mind. I told mysel… Read More
2017-06-13 00:46
I still hear from the Ex Guy and I'm still not really talking about it because there's nothing to talk about. I've asked myself a new question though. Even if he did fix whatever… Read More
2017-05-10 19:09
A few of my guy friends have gotten engaged recently. I find myself thing, no thanks, not yet. I'm not at that place. Maybe if I met the right guy, I'd be at that place?&nb&hell…Read More
2017-05-02 04:44
I was in Paris over the weekend with two girlfriends. Well, a girlfriend and her friend. I'm never traveling with her friend again. Paris was beautiful and cold. It w… Read More
2017-04-18 16:41
Instead of thinking about men, dating, and relationships, I've been putting my energy into asking myself some questions.If I didn't have to work for money and could do anything I want, what… Read More
2017-03-23 17:16
I've been on a break from men and dating. I still check my various apps and sites about once a week, but my heart's not in it. I think there's a lot I want to see and do before I… Read More
2017-03-05 21:53
I haven't heard from that guy that I went out with a couple weeks ago and that's fine. From the date, I got the sense that he was too fresh off his divorce, which was finalized not too… Read More
2017-02-22 01:55
It's 2017 and I'm not supposed to be talking about the ex guy. I will for a minute because I'd like to share what he's doing wrong. He's been asking mutual friends to talk to me… Read More
2017-02-16 06:25
That Saturday night date was good. We had a lot in common. We had a lot to talk about. He was sociable and aware of social cues. Unfortunately, I don't know if there'… Read More
2017-02-11 17:54
I have a date tonight and I'm actually feeling pretty good about it. He hasn't sent me one pointless text! That's so great!! His texts were very direct and he asked me out… Read More
2017-02-08 19:55
My new crush is no longer much of a crush. We've been texting a little here and there. I'd say he's not interested enough, I'm not interested enough, or both. If either of… Read More
2017-02-03 20:20
Currently, I have five dating and relationship resolutions. I might add more later. These are the ones that are most important for me right now.Be more present. I can't cha… Read More
2017-01-31 18:57
I finished that book by Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance. What I believe to be the main points:Hi, Hey, Heyyyy, et al don't work (what I've always said)Meet as soon as possible (agree)Too m… Read More
2017-01-28 15:23
Happy Lunar New Year! Second chance to make and follow some New Year's resolutions. But really, why wait for New Year's to do this? It can be done year round... I had… Read More
2017-01-26 18:43
That bad date guy sent me a text to ask me out for a second date. Since I've already turned him down in person by saying, "We aren't a good match," I won't be replying. I left absolutely no… Read More
2017-01-23 22:52
I'm glad I told that guy, "We aren't a good match" to his face. Since we had only gone out that one time, my norm would have been to ghost him or tell him over text when he asked me ou… Read More
2017-01-21 21:34
I don't like going on unpleasant dates, not just because I have to sit through it while it's happening, but also because I think about it afterwards. I've been thinking about that da… Read More
2017-01-18 00:49
Even though I wanted to cancel very badly, I went out with that irritating comments and questions guy. (The guy we've discussed via comments in my last post.) We are not a good m… Read More
2017-01-13 17:40
I have a date tomorrow night. It was scheduled a week and a half ago. I want to cancel very bad. I am doing my best not to cancel. He's been texting me with what I co… Read More
2017-01-11 21:29
The anger I felt towards the ex when he randomly popped in my head (like when he texted, "Happy New Year!") was already dwindling as a result of time. The anger went away even faster w… Read More
2017-01-06 02:26
I'm about a third of the way through Aziz Ansari's book, Modern Romance. He's the comedian that who on The Office. Some things he said that I've always said (he had scholars and… Read More
2017-01-03 07:18
I've been spending time with some girlfriends over the long New Year's weekend. We have a pact and I really like it. We are not to bring up any of our exes in 2017. We've a… Read More
2016-12-28 21:46
There's been a lot of flaking over the past month. Guys asking me out for coffee, drinks, lunch, or dinner and not picking a time or place. I also didn't ask for a time or a plac… Read More
2016-12-23 05:49
Christmas is only three days away! This year blew by. I had a dream about Ex Guy. I'm going to look at this positively. It was an early Christmas gift reminding me of… Read More
2016-12-21 01:13
Since my last post on this went so well, more on emails and cellphones. I remember a time when the majority of adult men and women had patience (I do have girlfriends who go crazy when… Read More
2016-12-17 01:17
Do you remember a time when email didn't exist and virtually no one had cellphones? Oh, those were the days. I enjoyed not feeling pressure to see things and reply within nanosec… Read More
2016-12-14 03:18
Over the weekend, I ran into a guy I went out with a few times at a party. I wrote about him ("Felix") in this blog. He was the guy who really wanted to go out with me and begged… Read More
2016-12-09 00:10
I went on that date with Travel Guy last night. We went to a very popular restaurant in downtown SF. The food was great. I like that he's a calm guy. He doesn't appear to h… Read More
2016-12-07 21:05
I'm going on a date with Travel Guy tonight. When we go out, it's always a pleasant time, I just don't think I see him romantically. At least, not right now. I don't think… Read More
2016-12-05 20:23
There was a guy I was supposed to have dinner with last night. We had a time, but we didn't have a place. He didn't tell me where and I didn't ask. I knew I wouldn't meet h… Read More
2016-12-02 21:56
"Cuffing season." Didn't know there was a name for this. From my understanding it's the time around Thanksgiving to just after the new year where men and women try to find a boyf… Read More
2016-12-02 21:54
I've recovered from the flu and this weekend, I'm going to go on a few dates with guys who've I've been putting off for the past several weeks or months. I've put them off for a variet… Read More
2016-11-28 19:48
Tis the season! I've noticed a sharp uptick in guys contacting me on the dating sites and apps. If memory serves, I've seen this every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, then right aft… Read More
2016-11-24 03:32
Thanksgiving is tomorrow. All the new age and spiritual information talk about how gratitude increases happiness. Well, what's there not to be grateful for? I have food, clothing… Read More
2016-11-21 23:01
I've been under the weather a lot this year. I usually get sick once, maybe twice a year. I've been sick four or five times already and the year isn't even over. I'll take… Read More
2016-11-18 00:12
I have a second date coming up. He seems like a nice guy and I don't think we had much to talk about on our first date. He's been hounding me to go out again. I'm going to… Read More
2016-11-14 05:53
I was thinking about comments I got from a previous post. I was trying to understand why some "men" block and don't respond if you can't meet up with them right then and there. O… Read More
2016-11-11 03:01
Yesterday, I got the guy who blocked me because I didn't want to meet him for a drink the very night that he asked me to. Today, I got the guy who blocked me because I took too long to… Read More
2016-11-09 21:23
1) Wow, what a day with all the election talk2) LOL, such immaturity in online dating. I was blocked by a guy because he didn't like my answer to "Let's grab drinks tonight." All I sai… Read More
2016-11-07 22:41
Even though he sent several texts confirming dinner and giving me his exact whereabouts on his way to dinner, he turned out to be fine in real life. We had a nice dinner and talked.&nb&hell…Read More
2016-11-04 16:40
I'm a big believer that if you like someone, everything they do or say is great. And if you don't like someone, everything they do or say is terrible. I have a date with a new guy toni… Read More
2016-10-31 09:27
I will respond to Travel Guy to tell him I'm not feeling it. I haven't done it yet. I'm overthinking what I should say. And I'm still hoping he'll ghost me, meaning he'll just disappea… Read More
2016-10-27 02:38
Travel Guy asked me out for dinner. It was much too late, I'm busy. Also, there's been a few sexual innuendos in our past two dates. It is very likely that I won't be seeing him again… Read More
2016-10-24 01:07
I don't know much about Buddhism, but I do know one of their beliefs is just to let it go. That driver who cut you off? Let it go. That partner who cheated on you? Le… Read More
2016-10-12 20:18
Breakups can be great and divorce can be even better. Many people seem to be afraid of divorce. Sure, there are emotions and money involved. However, once those are taken c… Read More
2016-10-01 18:42
Many dread breakups, but they can be great. Why waste time with someone who you don't really want to be with or who doesn't really want to be with you? I had dinner with a good g… Read More
2016-09-28 20:29
Has breakup season moved? It used to be right before or right after the holidays. Many of my girlfriends have broken up with their boyfriends (or were broken up with by their boyfriends) in… Read More
2016-09-26 07:46
Had dinner with Travel Guy Saturday tonight. We had a nice conversation. He's growing on me, but I'm still not very into it. It also doesn't help that I'm starting to think… Read More
2016-09-22 06:56
If a guy isn't specific about a date being a dinner date because we meet at a lounge, he gets one hour, maximum. He was quite surprised when I ended the date. Well, it's dinner t… Read More
2016-09-20 00:18
I cancelled a date tonight. He didn't set plans for tonight. No time and restaurant. For a first date, spontaneity doesn't work. One down, two more to go this week.&n&hell…Read More
2016-09-14 22:20
Over the weekend, I went on a day date to Napa with that guy I'm unsure about. (I think I'll call him Travel Guy because he seems to take a lot of vacations.) Unfortunately, I st… Read More
2016-09-08 04:43
I think this will work for both men and women. I highly recommend going on a date with someone new to get the ex out of your head. Yes, it's hard, you're still sad, angry, et al… Read More
2016-09-01 17:08
The Ex Guy just texted me again and it's making me angry. On several different occasions, I've told him not to email, call, or text. This hasn't deterred him. My friends ar… Read More
2016-08-30 20:26
Saw this article today and agree. If someone ghosts, who cares why. If they aren't making time to actually see you in person, who cares why and they just aren't that into you.&nb&hell…Read More
2016-08-26 22:22
I told him I can't get out of town this weekend. He offered alternative weekends. I wish there was a spark because he seems like a nice guy. Do I give him a second chance t… Read More
2016-08-25 18:04
This seems to always happen. I broke up with that guy and a guy I had dinner with years ago reached out to me. I went out with him again (a second date years later) last night.&n&hell…Read More
2016-07-27 14:17
I broke up with him, back into the sea he goes. It doesn't seem like he wants to go back into the sea. He's been texting, calling, et al. I don't have anything else to say… Read More
2016-07-21 13:50
He's been talking about forever. This is causing sleepless nights. It's more than I don't know about forever with him. It's about forever with anyone. He's a nice guy who i… Read More
2016-07-11 18:28
When I was younger, I loved drama. I think I still like it, to a lesser degree than before, but it's still there. I think I get bored with this guy from time to time because there isn'… Read More
2016-07-02 16:23
Steve Harvey wrote a book about dating. In it, he talks about the three P's. A guy is very serious about you when he:Professes - gives you a title, stakes his claim in front of o… Read More
2016-06-24 15:50
I skimmed this NYT Modern Love piece. Two things I focused on:"If he doesn't want you, you don't want him" - I agree 100%. Why spend energy wanting someone who doesn't want you back?Ty… Read More
2016-06-20 03:34
I don't think I'm the relationship type. He calls me his girlfriend and that makes me feel awkward. He refers to himself as my boyfriend and that also makes me feel awkward. &hell…Read More
2016-06-15 03:20
I've been traveling a lot. Some trips are solo, some trips are with friends, and some trips are with the guy. They are all fun in different ways. When I overdo it on solo t… Read More
2016-05-06 20:14
When things are going well, I'm not sure I want to continue. When things aren't going well, I want them to continue. Do I scare easily? Perhaps. Do I like the challen… Read More
2016-04-30 06:51
Things have been going better with the guy I'm dating. Still unclear if it's going anywhere though. We've been spending more time together and I haven't gotten sick of him, which… Read More
2016-04-19 13:02
I know what's been bothering me about this guy I'm dating. I don't think it'll go anywhere. Some people are okay dating someone forever and knowing that it won't go anywhere.&nbs&hell…Read More
2016-04-13 16:46
I've had so little time. I'm still dating the guy I was getting bored of. Maybe he sensed I was getting bored? I think he knew that I went on dates after the "I understand… Read More
2016-03-14 19:57
I went on that date last week. He didn't say much. He stared at me in silence most of the night and wants to go out again. I'm not sure. The conversation was pleasant.&nb&hell…Read More
2016-03-10 20:55
I'm getting bored of the guy I've been dating. And, it's too complex with his kids, ex wife, et al. He also says he understands if I'm dating others, but he's not. I don't… Read More
2016-03-01 18:06
I was on a flight from NY to SF. Across the aisle, was a young woman and a young man. They did not know each other before the six hour flight. They were cuddled up by the e… Read More
2016-02-27 22:04
I have been dating someone and I've stayed quiet about it. I think I can see a future, but I'm not sure. He's been married and he has children from that marriage Read More
2016-02-19 01:22
I've never believed in Valentine's Day. People should appreciate each other year round, not just Februrary 14th. I got roses this year. And a card. The roses are still aliv… Read More
2016-02-05 05:09
I went to Super Bowl City. It wasn't crowded and there wasn't much to do. Nice to see what all the hype was about Read More
2016-01-31 18:22
The Super Bowl is in Santa Clara, CA this year. I believe Santa Clara is about two hours from San Francisco. Why are all the festivities taking place up here? Getting aroun… Read More
2016-01-29 08:21
I'm regressing. When I was a kid, I used to cry all the time. I'm turning back into my five year old self. I don't remember why I used to cry, I just know that I did. … Read More
2016-01-17 20:14
It's been raining a lot. I've looked very scrubby walking around town. I've noticed an increase in the number of men who invite me to coffee with their friends (I was standing ou… Read More
2016-01-15 19:21
The blind date was a bust. I didn't even want to write about it. 1) Absolutely no physical attraction. 2) He wanted to debate every topic that came up Read More
2016-01-14 07:22
1.5 billion dollars! No, I didn't win. I wish I did. What would I do with the money? Be unemployed and travel. What would you do if you won? Read More
2016-01-12 17:13
I have a blind date tomorrow night. I don't know what he looks like. I do know his profession, where in SF he lives, and his hobbies Read More
2016-01-10 19:21
I'm finally better and went to several networking events this past week. I was approached by many married men and no single men. Why? I don't know Read More
2016-01-02 16:07
I haven't said much because I'm still sick. It's been a week? I don't know, it feels like it's been a year. Things I know I will continue doing in 2016:Traveling moreTaking… Read More
2015-12-31 20:07
Happy New Year! Be safe out there. And if you are in SF, there should be fireworks tonight Read More
2015-12-29 20:38
Sorry, I've been MIA. I think I have the flu. I've been canceling on guys and many want to meet even though I have the flu? I said no to all Read More
2015-12-25 19:03
For those of you who celebrate, Merry Christmas! For those of you who don't, enjoy not dealing with crazy relatives, LOL Read More
2015-12-24 18:27
Getting ready for holiday travel. For those of you traveling, good luck, may the force be with you, and hope it goes smoothly! Read More
2015-12-22 15:35
It's been pouring out here in SF. As I result, I don't look my best (soaked jeans, ugly rain coat, broken umbrella, wet hair, skipped mascara and makeup in general, et al). The m… Read More
2015-12-21 19:58
I've noticed tinder response drop offs as being quite high. I will take a lot of the responsibility for this, it could be somewhat of a deterrent for those communicating with me becaus… Read More
2015-12-19 00:28
Had my first tinder date last night. We met for a drink. I shut it down at the hour mark. We had a nice conversation, however, he liked to argue (red flag for me) and even… Read More
2015-12-16 17:54
NYT has talked about ghosting a lot. This is the most recent thing I read. It talks about what goes through a woman's head when she thinks she's being ghosted. I think some reade… Read More
2015-12-14 18:14
I saw family over the weekend. It was a great time! We reminisced, ate, and laughed. I should see family more frequently Read More
2015-12-12 17:55
I've been traveling to New York a lot. And compared to NY, SF chivalry is nonexistent. I've heard many West Coasters talk about how New Yorkers are rude. I disagree. … Read More
2015-12-10 14:53
I mentioned this before and it's increased...it's disqualified men season! This guy basically told me off for not replying fast enough and kept asking me if I was interested in him. He… Read More
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