How to get a girlfriend Step by step explained

Having a nice, good Girlfriend, it’s something that can change your life. There is no better feeling on world, then having in arms someone who loves you and is willing to do everything for you.

Let this be your  guide on how to get a girlfriend.

Step 1 – Define what are you looking for

You have to be smart when it comes to finding an right girlfriend for you. Can any girl out there be your girlfriend? Hell no. There are lots of girls who do not like “boyfriend- girlfriend relationship”. On other side, there are girls dreaming to find a guy like you, and be with him. So its all about finding the right ones and converting them into your girlfriend.

But it all starts with you, what do you want.

You have to define what girl are you looking for and what qualities she has to have. This is crucial step because it will reveal where you can find her(step 2)

Take this project seriously, and I guarantee you, you will have an girlfriend within 2-3 months.

Make a list of things you are looking for in your future girlfriend.

Like this:

• Romantic
• Interesting
• Likes sports
• Sweet
• Likes to cook
• Takes care of her looks
• Likes chill music
• ….
• ….

Be as detailed as possible.

This is the first and most important step in finding your ideal girlfriend. Know exactly what you are looking for!

Step 2 – Where to find her

More important then how to get a girlfriend, is where do you look for her. You can be best guy on planet, but if you are looking for her on wrong place, you will never find her.

World is a big place, and there are millions of subcultures out there. Its all about filtering. You not going to look for Nice sweet romantic girlfriend at a Metallica concert… would you?

Step 3 – Meeting her Online or Offline?

If you have done first step correctly, and you know what are you looking for, next step is to ask yourself, where do those girls hangout during day and night? What kind of apps they use? Where can you meet those girls, when is the easiest to meet them… As I said you have to be smart about this. Filter your target group.

Most guys now days are too scared to come and talk to her in bar, club, cafe, school, but rather they hide behind text messages, and social media apps or dating apps.
There are some great dating apps like Tinder, and they have lots of girls.

Good side about Online dating is that it takes no confidence and skills to start and talk with girls. There are millions of girls and you can have lots of fun.
The cruel reality is that online dating  is very ineffective and time-consuming ( takes too much time), It takes you on average an week of texting with a girl to get her to see her.

Another downside of Online dating is that its overused. Girls are being bombarded with text messages. You have to see how average girl inbox looks like on facebook. Tons of guys trying to chat her up. Needy guys fucked up this chatting hard-core for all other man on this planet.

Once you find a girl you like and you know where she hang’s out, you will have much better options if you approach her and start conversation with her person to person you will immediately separate yourself from all other competition.

Girls are complaining more and more about this, recently I met this hot girl and she told me how she goes out and whole night guy is looking at her, smiling, she is smiling back, they flirt non verbally whole night, but guy has no balls and confidence to come and talk to  her, instead next day he add’s her to Facebook and starts to text with her. How sad is that?  

Girls are more and more disappointed in mankind. So if you ask me, be different, use this into your advantage, get confidence, approach her and start conversation with her. In this blog you will find millions of tips and tricks for conversation how to make it interesting, how to make her to like you. You do not need to hide behind cellphone. Learn all skills here and you will be able to find a girlfriend whenever you want so.

Places where good potential girlfriend’s hangout  :

• Library
• Cafe’s
• Nature
• Parks
• Language school
• Home parties

Opportunities to meet cute, beautiful, sweet girl are everywhere. Be social, hangout with girls, but still stay a man.

 You can find more tips like this at Badboy School on Dating & Relationship Module.

Step 4 – The Best Girlfriend material type of girl

As we already said not every girl is a good relationship material. Best relationship type are Emotional girls, who are little bit shy, but inside very romantic, faithful, loyal, they love to read books, family is important to them, they usually do some yoga or some dance.

They can still be very good lovers in bed, but they are really aware of their feminine energy and they respect man as a man. You will recognize them, really easily, round emotional faces, and they do not stand out in big groups. They can be very insecure and hard to open up. It takes a time for them to trust someone and let him in.

Step 5 – Talk to her

Wait for a perfect opportunity when she is alone, come up to her and start an conversation.
Be honest, be direct, be an man.

Just come up to her and say, “I don’t know why but I really like you and I want to get to know you… who are you, what’s your name?

Yes it takes lots of confidence to come up to her and start an conversation, but guess what, all  that confidence will be rewarded. Girls actually notice those things, that you had balls to come up to her and start an conversation vs all other guys who are trying to add her on Facebook as a friend. Girls like to be around guys who are sure in themselves, because it makes them feel safe to be around them.

Just like her main selling point is her beauty and being sweet and sexy as a girlfriend, your main selling point is confidence. Use it.
Remember that those sweet emotional girls are usually very insecure about their life and themselves.

Once you start talking with girls you will be surprised that there is nothing scary, they are sweet innocent girls who are looking for someone to love and who will love them.

Step 6 – Get to know her

When we are talking about how to find an girlfriend, its important that she gets to know you.

In a conversation, open an variety of topics and get to know her, as well open up yourself and make sure she get’s to know things about you. Inside these topics try to find as many common points as possible.

Try to connect on things and interest you have in-common. Like both of you like rollerblading, or art… whatever it is, talk about it, and use it to create some future plan on it …”wow,  there is this amazing art exhibition in town this month, we should go check it out together. Girls love when you show interest in them, and you start taking care of future.

Rule 1# on how to find an girlfriend – Create future plans

On every thing you find in common, create an future plan that involves both of you together.
This way she will start seeing herself doing things with you in future.

Topics you want to cover in conversation are :
Music, Hobbies, Movies, Childhood, Holidays, Traveling, Food,Drinks
Topics to Avoid : Money, Problems, Negativity, Job, School, Sex

You can find more tips like this at Badboy School on Dating & Relationship Module.

Step 7 – Get her number

After the conversation make sure you get her number, so you can stay in touch with her. Do not beg for number, do not be a pussy to ask for her number, Instead be a man, more about how to get an number in right way  you can find here.

Don’t be needy

Remember, you like her but you do not need her. Girls hate guys who are too needy, who are desperate to be with her, you have options, you are happy with your life, you do not need her to be happy, but still you would like to try it and make it work, you enjoy her company, you enjoy being and talking to her. That’s your main framework.

Don’t be too available

Just like neediness is not good, being too available is not good as well, You have an busy life, you have things to do, at least 4 days in a week you are busy. The more unavailable you are the more she will respect time she spends with you.

Step 8 –  Convert her into your girlfriend

This is one of most important steps in  “ How to find an girlfriend”, and the most fragile one .
Go on as many dates with different girls as possible. To gather as much experience as you can. On each date you will learn something new that you will use for  converting that one into an girlfriend.

When you are taking you potential girlfriend on date, be careful what kind of dates you choose to go to. Date shouldn’t be boring. Have fun, separate dates into several mini dates. Do something together. We call it “Play time”.
Girls love those kind of dates.

Go-carts,Ice skating, play air hockey, rent a bike, just do something different, do something that no one else did with her. Be different.

And then in the end you can take her to a Dinner or cup of tea or coffee.

Separate dates into 3 mini-dates. (1)Meeting -cafe,(2) activity ( playtime), (3) lounge chill out or food time

Do not be pushy to make sex happen as soon as possible. If you do everything correctly, sex will happen naturally as a result of a girl liking you and enjoy being with you. So focus on spending quality time with her.

Kiss her on a 2nd date, somewhere in middle of date. Just by her coming to a 2nd date its a big sign that she likes you and she wants something more with you. Prepare the kiss ( where will you kiss her) as much as possible.

 You can find more tips like this at Badboy School on Dating & Relationship Module.

Step 9 – First sex

First sex should happen somewhere in first 3-6 dates. The longer you wait the more control over relationship she will have. On the first sex  you should focus on her. Instead on crazy sex, make Love, be gentle but still with  lots of passion. Make sure she has an orgasm or two. And do not forget to cuddle after sex.

After sex her body is full of Oxytocin hormone( cuddle hormone), which will link her and you. Since you want an relationship, release lots of Oxytocin hormon, and link it with you. Next morning she will feel she is in relationship with you.

Its not only how to find an girlfriend, but as well how to create an good girlfriend and make health relationship out from it. 

Step 10 – Keep dating her

Congratulations, how you have a girlfriend.
Now, you have to keep dating her, combine, dates, sex, meeting her friends, going to movies, dinners…Maintaining an good relationship can take lots of energy and investment.

Make sure your relationship provides her with stability, adventure, pleasure and good sex, make sure she is happy and she will stay with you for long, long time.

You can find more tips like this at Badboy School on Dating & Relationship Module.
Now go out and start looking for a perfect girl for relationship.

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