2024-04-24 18:28
Do you shy away from it…criticism? Do you see it as “all bad” or do you see it as an opportunity to learn something?
Not all criticism is bad and it’s up to you t… Read More
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2024-04-21 21:45
Are you…making a habit of choosing your words carefully? Are you…making a habit of thinking only those thoughts that bring you comfort and also make others smile and want to be… Read More
2024-04-20 19:23
Will it be up or down? Your journey through this life?
Will every setback destroy you; every mistake bring you misery? Will a chance remark deflate you? If you let it then it will. You wi… Read More
2024-04-19 18:04
Oooops…..you made a mistake! So now what? Do you sit there replaying the unfortunate scenario over and over in your head and thinking to yourself that somehow you are the dumbest pers… Read More
2024-04-12 17:56
Enjoy your Saturday! Do something nice for yourself today. Or, even better, do something nice for somebody else.
Go watch a sunrise (or sunset). Go to a park with the kids. Get outside if… Read More
2024-04-03 22:25
Let it drift away- all that stuff from your past that you carry around with you- stuff that us not helping you now but only hurting you. You know the things I mean- things that happened year… Read More
2024-03-28 21:31
Are you talking about it…the stuff you love, the stuff that makes you happy and smile? Do you share what makes you happy with others as well? Do you take the time to really dwell on t… Read More
2024-03-27 22:07
You are in control…of your feelings in any given situation. You are in control of how you feel and how you react.
You may not be able to control the events around you, or the react… Read More
2024-03-26 18:50
How strongly do you feel…about the things you think you want? Are you willing to go to bat for them wholeheartedly, to give it your all? Or at the first sign of trouble will you say t… Read More
2024-03-25 21:43
There are times when we want to be high energy – we want to get things done because we have places to go and things to do. But there are times when we need to step back and slow down… Read More
2024-03-05 19:15
They belong to you. Your thoughts and your ideas so pay attention to them when they flash through your mind. Pay attention to all the little “signals” that the universe sends you… Read More
2024-02-28 21:58
Don’t wait until it’s too late…to mend fences with someone you might have had a disagreement with. Don’t let months or even years go by.
We never know how much ti… Read More
2024-02-21 21:51
If you don’t believe in yourself, then who will? The guy who pumps your gas, or your neighbor? They are too busy worrying about their own problems.
No, it has to come from you. Go s… Read More
2024-01-29 20:25
You can only move forward in life…and not go back- so keep that in mind when you keep dwelling on the past
What was said was said; what was done as done- and there’s just no… Read More
2024-01-28 22:27
Do you smile? Do you greet each day with anticipation or do you dread the sunrise?
Do you count your blessings or do you curse those you think have “more” than you and just wa… Read More
2024-01-11 22:03
Keep it focused…your attention on the right- here and right- now. Work with today, and what you can do today to make your day run more smoothly. Take action now.
Thinking about wha… Read More
2024-01-08 21:55
Build one..a strong support team. Surround yourself with people who support your goals and ambitions. Choose friends that have done what you want to do.
Now I am not saying to abandon fri… Read More
2023-12-18 21:07
So what feels right to you? What is calling to you? Those are strong indicators of the right road for you.
And it doesn’t have to be what everyone else is doing- that’s why th… Read More
2023-12-08 20:17
If you don’t believe in yourself, then who will? The guy who pumps your gas, or your neighbor? They are too busy worrying about their own problems.
No, it has to come from you. Go s… Read More
2023-12-02 20:48
Are you jumping through hoops to please others? Do you know you lose a little of yourself each time you do that?
It’s great to make someone else happy, but only do it if you truly c… Read More
2023-11-25 21:14
Smash them…the boundaries you set for yourself (or had somebody else set them for you) Take a hammer and just smack them to bits.
Look, life really does hold unlimited promise for… Read More
2023-11-23 19:55
Keep looking inside…for happiness. That is where happiness truly comes from. We search for it over and over in external things, but we find that those things only give us fleeting hap… Read More
2023-11-22 20:10
Are you happy? Do you make it a point to be happy about simple things- a sunny day, a smile of a child, the beauty of a flower, for example?
Or are you only happy when something ore monum… Read More
2023-11-17 23:19
They’re all around you…signs. Yes, those signs you’ve been looking for and asking for. But you need to keep your ears and eyes peeled for them.It could be a song on the ra… Read More
2023-11-10 19:11
Keep it focused…your attention on the right- here and right- now. Work with today, and what you can do today to make your day run more smoothly. Take action now.
Thinking about wha… Read More
2023-11-02 20:07
You know, sometimes we get stuck in a rut. We get comfortable doing the same things over and over again. An that’s okay, as long as we’re getting the results we want to get.
B… Read More
2023-11-01 18:15
When you feel shaky and unsure concentrate on something you do well. This will help build your confidence and enable you to go on. Norman Vincent Peale, in his book “Positive Imaging&r&hell…Read More
2023-10-23 18:38
Watch what you say…when you speak to another. Watch the tone of your voice. Watch the words that come out of your mouth.Words have tremendous power, and they can wound deeply and the… Read More
2023-10-16 19:34
Go ahead and turn it on…the light, I mean. Don’t sit there in the dark just thinking about how miserable it all is; how you can’t see anything, and how you just never seem… Read More
2023-10-12 19:50
It’s always now…it’s always the right time to move forward; to take the next step.
It’s not next week, or next month, or next year. When you think along those lin… Read More
2023-10-10 18:52
Will it really make you happy… lots of material possessions? Have you ever noticed that you may say to yourself “my life would be so much better if only I had ___” you can… Read More
2023-10-09 17:48
Keep it in perspective- those little annoyances in life. Missing your bus or train is not the end of the world. Having to buy another brand of fabric softener from your usual brand is not an… Read More
2023-10-04 19:30
Look for the good… in every situation. There always is something if you just look close enough.
Maybe you don’t get along with you ex-husband…but he’s a really g… Read More
2023-09-29 19:35
So what are you talking about? What kind of words are pouring out of your mouth?
Are you talking happily; using words like “love” and “kind” and :grateful”… Read More
2023-09-28 20:05
Take it to the next level- take your dream to the next step. Make that phone call, or that visit. Send that email or get that research started and take notes. Then make it a point to continu… Read More
2023-09-26 19:23
What are you telling yourself? Are you telling yourself things that make you happy? Do you encourage yourself? Do you see the glass as half-full? Do you treat yourself like your own best fri… Read More
2023-09-23 20:19
Remember that it’s yours- your life. They should be your choices and you should choose your own path. Sure, sometimes those close to you may not always agree at first but as time goes… Read More
2023-09-18 18:53
Ya gotta have some…enthusiasm. You have to have a zest for life and an appreciation of all the good things already in your life- if you want to enjoy it.
Sometimes it means b… Read More
2023-09-14 19:30
Sitting there mulling over your future? Wondering which way to go? Losing sleep at night because of uncertainty?
Get unstuck! Take the first step and do something, anything to get you mov… Read More
2023-09-11 19:17
Frustrations- we all have them. No matter how positive we are some negative things will crop up in our lives. Bit it’s how we deal with them that makes the difference.
Do we dwell o… Read More
2023-09-06 19:56
Are you underestimating yourself? Are you underestimating your talents while overvaluing what others can do?
For example, maybe you’re a great interior decorator, and people, over t… Read More
2023-08-25 17:18
Boost your confidence- take a small step towards your goal. Even a small step is better than just kind of sitting there waiting to get started. It’s like keeping a car engine on &ldquo&hell…Read More
2023-08-24 20:03
It doesn’t matter- what happened in the past- each day is brand new. Brand new actions to take, brand new feelings to feel, it’s a clean slate being offered to you.
But how ma… Read More
2023-08-22 18:46
Find your place. You’ll know when it feels right. Whether your place is in an office or out in the field; whether it is in a condo or a house or perhaps sharing your space with a good… Read More
2023-08-20 19:47
This is your decision and your decision alone- the path you take in life.
So what feels right to you? What is calling to you? Those are strong indicators of the right road for you.
And… Read More
2023-08-13 19:32
What are you saying exactly- when you talk to yourself?
Take a little time to notice that today. Take a little time to notice how you feel when you talk to yourself. If you feel good, if… Read More
2023-08-10 18:56
Surround yourself with like minded people- people who support your goals and lift you up with their smiles and actions- like this guy here- just look at his warm smile.
When you say &ldqu&hell…Read More
2023-08-08 20:01
So often, we are in a hurry…all the time. Even when there’s nothing pressing we’re in a hurry because we’re so used to running around we forget how to slow down… Read More
2023-08-06 19:23
They belong to you. Your thoughts and your ideas so pay attention to them when they flash through your mind. Pay attention to all the little “signals” that the universe sends you… Read More
2023-08-05 17:55
You know, sometimes we get stuck in a rut. We get comfortable doing the same things over and over again. An that’s okay, as long as we’re getting the results we want to get.
B… Read More
2023-08-01 19:33
Keep it focused…your attention on the right- here and right- now. Work with today, and what you can do today to make your day run more smoothly. Take action now.
Thinking about wha… Read More
2023-07-30 18:26
What matters most to you? Have you sat down to think about it? Have you written down what is important to you and made a plan on taking it step-by-step or are your thoughts all over the plac… Read More
2023-07-27 19:23
You have what you need. You have all you need to be successful right between your ears. Do you know how powerful you really are? Or do you let petty insecurities hold you back?It has been sa… Read More
2023-07-26 19:37
Do they still fit you- rules or decisions you made for yourself long ago?
Maybe you made a decision based on something that was happening in your life- but it is over now. Maybe you made… Read More
2023-07-20 17:08
Are you practicing it…gratitude? Do you make it a point to give thanks for all the good in your life? Do you get up in the morning and as your feet hit the ground say “thank you… Read More
2023-07-18 17:48
Are you communicating? Are you asking for what you want (in a polite way of course) or are you just expecting people to guess?
There are very few mind readers out there. No one is going t… Read More
2023-07-16 16:33
What’s holding you back? What’s holding you back from going after the things you want?
So many times we tell ourselves things like “If it were only a different time or c… Read More
2023-07-08 18:58
Find a little…gratitude. Look around you; you have plenty to be grateful for. Being grateful signals the highway is open for the Universe to bring you more things to be grateful for… Read More
2023-07-05 16:44
Be the light- in someone’s day. Make their day a little happier just because they met you. So many people need a smile so give them one of yours. So many people want to make a connecti… Read More
2023-06-29 19:36
Be your own barometer. How can you do that? By noticing your feelings in different situations.
When you feel good; when you feel open; when you feel ANYTHING is possible then you know you… Read More
2023-06-25 19:35
Wonder why you might be having a bad day? Wonder why things might be less-than-perfect? And are you getting madder and madder just thinking about how your day is unfolding?
Think back&hel&hell…Read More
2023-06-23 17:06
We all have different ideas and different opinions, but the one that you matter most to you is your own.Other people can offer you advice and helpful suggestions but only you know what reson… Read More
2023-06-20 17:49
Are you engaging in it…gossip? Do you encourage it and want to keep it going? Do you find it entertaining?
Gossip is damaging. Not only is it most often not true, but why do we nee… Read More
2023-06-17 20:26
How do you sound…when you speak to others? How do you sound?
Are your words kind? Do you offer a smile and sincere sentiments? If asked for your opinion do you give it with concern… Read More
2023-06-15 19:22
You’re okay anyway…in fact you’re always okay…even if you get that feeling that another does not feel that way.Yes, even if your friend/relative/husband/wife/signif… Read More
2023-06-12 17:48
It’s got to belong to you- your path; your journey. Sure you can look at a friend and say “Should I be doing that?” or “Look at Joe, maybe I should get into his field… Read More
2023-06-08 17:57
Good morning on this sunny Thursday.
You know, maybe we should focus more on all we have been to put our attention on what we are missing.
Mindset of abundance always produces better r… Read More
2023-06-06 19:01
It’s all in the way you see it- your life experiences. It’s like the “glass half full or glass half empty” kind of thing, If you continue to focus on the not-so-good… Read More
2023-06-05 19:33
What’s holding you back? What’s holding you back from going after the things you want?
So many times we tell ourselves things like “If it were only a different time or c… Read More
2023-06-04 16:35
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Open it… your heart. Let people into your life. Take that chance and reach out. Make a connection.
If you are alone, why not join a group where you will have a common int… Read More
2023-06-03 19:53
You know, we’ve all seen it- someone we know is in a bad mood so the first thing we assume is that we have something to do with it. So we get defensive, ask them what the heck is wrong… Read More
2023-05-24 18:27
You know, we’ve all seen it- someone we know is in a bad mood so the first thing we assume is that we have something to do with it. So we get defensive, ask them what the heck is wrong… Read More
2023-05-23 18:42
Choose wisely…the company you keep choose to friend those people who lift you up when you’re feeling out of sorts. Choose those people that make you smile. Choose to be friends… Read More
2023-05-19 16:05
Are you happy? Do you make it a point to be happy about simple things- a sunny day, a smile of a child, the beauty of a flower, for example?
Or are you only happy when something ore monum… Read More
2023-05-17 18:49
We change it with our thoughts…our destiny. Now we can sit there and tell ourselves that we are where we are in life because of the weather, or the amount of schooling we have, or our… Read More
2023-05-14 17:04
Do you do this- sabotage yourself? Let me give you an example. You want to go on vacation. You pick up brochures, you read about different places to go and you pick one- yes, this is it- the… Read More
2023-05-09 15:53
Keep it focused…your attention on the right- here and right- now. Work with today, and what you can do today to make your day run more smoothly. Take action now.
Thinking about wha… Read More
2023-05-07 16:41
Anytime can be the time… the time for a fresh start.
It doesn’t have to be a new day or a new week or a new year. Your fresh start can begin right now, right where you stand… Read More
2023-05-05 19:24
What matters most to you? Have you sat down to think about it? Have you written down what is important to you and made a plan on taking it step-by-step or are your thoughts all over the plac… Read More
2023-05-04 19:42
Embrace the now- embrace where you are right now.
We worry too much about tomorrow. What will it bring? We worry too much about yesterday. Why did we do what we did?
We are either fret… Read More
2023-04-30 16:17
Be your own barometer. How can you do that? By noticing your feelings in different situations.
When you feel good; when you feel open; when you feel ANYTHING is possible then you know you… Read More
2023-04-23 16:27
It’s what you make it…life. Do you choose to be appreciative? Are you happy for a sunny day or a hot cup of coffee? Or are those things just “mundane” and they don&r&hell…Read More
2023-04-17 12:55
Are you using them…affirmations? If not why not?
Affirmations can really help. Pick out one that has meaning for you (or make your own) and say them often. Write them down and put… Read More
2023-04-14 18:08
This is your decision and your decision alone- the path you take in life.
So what feels right to you? What is calling to you? Those are strong indicators of the right road for you.
And… Read More
2023-04-13 19:45
Keep it focused…your attention on the right- here and right- now. Work with today, and what you can do today to make your day run more smoothly. Take action now.
Thinking about wha… Read More
2023-04-12 18:47
Choose wisely…the company you keep choose to friend those people who lift you up when you’re feeling out of sorts. Choose those people that make you smile. Choose to be friends… Read More
2023-04-09 17:54
Don’t let it into your life…drama.
It’s great to watch on TV, but when you let it into your life it can be a mess. Sure, there are many things to get upset about in lif… Read More
2023-04-04 17:20
Cherish the moments you have with your loved ones- whether they be human or have fur or feathers. One day they might not be here anymore, and we could regret not spending more time with them… Read More
2023-03-31 16:22
Are you practicing it…gratitude? Do you make it a point to give thanks for all the good in your life? Do you get up in the morning and as your feet hit the ground say “thank you… Read More
2023-03-30 17:19
You are creating your own future…with every thought and action, each moment of every day.
But so many times we forget that, thinking instead that our lot in life is thrust upon us… Read More
2023-03-29 15:37
Keep it in perspective- those little annoyances in life. Missing your bus or train is not the end of the world. Having to buy another brand of fabric softener from your usual brand is not an… Read More
2023-03-26 15:42
It’s always the right time…to begin. If you have the idea, the dream, the goal- then it’s time. You will find a way to make it happen. It is why the dream lives on inside… Read More
2023-03-20 17:32
Patience is a virtue and with good reason…those who practice it have healthier, happier lives.
Be patient.It is not necessary to lay on the horn 3 seconds after the light changes… Read More
2023-03-02 17:49
What’s holding you back? What’s holding you back from going after the things you want?
So many times we tell ourselves things like “If it were only a different time or c… Read More
2023-02-25 21:33
Fix it….when you have a disagreement with someone. Don’t go away mad. Don’t hold a grudge. Don’t play the scenario over and over in your head and just get angrier an… Read More
2023-02-20 18:51
You are in control…of your feelings in any given situation. You are in control of how you feel and how you react.
You may not be able to control the events around you, or the react… Read More
2023-02-16 19:09
Are you hanging in there? Or do you quit each project after only a short time? Jacob Riis called “The Master Builder” once said that a stone cutter could deliver 100 blows to a s… Read More
2023-02-15 18:08
It’s futile to compare…yourself to others because we all have our own individual strengths. Just because your best friend may be a chef and you can’t even boil water does… Read More
2023-02-13 17:50
Are you engaging in it…gossip? Do you encourage it and want to keep it going? Do you find it entertaining?
Gossip is damaging. Not only is it most often not true, but why do we nee… Read More
2023-02-09 19:10
Give yourself a break today. For one day why not push your troubles aside and do something you LIKE to do.
You know what I’m talking about. It could be that trip to the lake or the… Read More
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