UHNW & HNW Women
Have Strength & Self Adoration in Dealing With Being Different
Living in affluence does not mean following or obeying the mainstream tribe of affluence. It means embracing YOUR difference & dealing with the calling of abundance from day to day.
Join today’s conversation on why you as an Ultra High Net Worth (UHNW), High Net Worth (HNW) or Affluent professional woman should look carefully at your situation and take the most appropriate risks that you feel you would be able to handle. Time is of the essence for you. You want to achieve as much as possible as the years fly by. You are getting older and you feel there is still so much that you want to do before your time is up.
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Mingled into this are the expectations of others. The others who are YOUR life partner (husband, fiance, boyfriend, gentleman friend, wife, girlfriend, lover, lady friend). The others who are YOUR family (near and distant, bloodline and step family). The others who are YOUR ‘friends’. The others who are YOUR colleagues. The others who are stakeholders in YOUR life.
You are an UHNW, HNW or Affluent Professional Woman and you have experienced a myriad of life trials and tribulations. You have been through levels of hate, stress, anger, self loathing, emotional upheaval, tears and tantrums. You have also danced along your life Journey in the giddiness of joy, happiness, affection, glee, love, elation and adoration.
So, you are what you are and that is an affluent woman. You are shy or an introvert. Perhaps with low level autism. You live in an affluent home. You live an affluent lifestyle. You have weight fluctuations. You have dietary impulses. You have relationship quandaries. Yet right now; today, through all that you have been through, you have an innate inner strength and adoration of yourself in dealing with being different. Your new friends are different and affluent. It is they that wholly understand what you are going through, because they too also had a similar journey as you. They too have a similar mindset to you. There is a connection to these amazing women on various levels because they too also experienced barriers to being different.
It is good to be an affluent woman who is dealing with being different.
It is usual for affluent women who have outgrown their birth community from a poor or poverty start in life to migrate to other societies. There comes a time when you have to leave behind the people that are holding you back from moving forward. This can include your mother, your father, siblings, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles. Where the fears and lack of aspiration of people that you once grew up with become an albatross to your skyward trajectory. How you extricate yourself from these individuals is up to you. Or at least a majority of these people that no longer have your focus, mindset and drive to want better for themselves. The people that you grew up with shall fall away. There will be some people that talk badly of you for wanting to live a better life and leaving them behind. They may well criticise you for wanting a better lifestyle. They may well become envious and vindictive of anything that you do. In amongst all of this change in you and your journey, you may keep in contact with one or two people from your community, but you do come to realise that you cannot all walk in the same shoes and do the same things, as imitations of each other just to keep the childhood and/or adolescent promise to always stay together. Always doing the same things together. Live within each others pockets. Live as neighbours in the same neighbourhood for life.
Your journey to ‘onwards and upwards’ through education, connections, work, associations and personal relationships is a roller coaster. You experience new actions, expectations, words, culture, ideas and ideals, through new people who are also on this march onwards and upwards. You shall be in unknown territory, using your intuition and intellect to help you manage situations. Your experience will be crucial to your development and will stand you in good stead. You shall discover many things about yourself at the time and you shall begin to understand the meaning of what you went through after a substantial duration. Life lessons. Lessons for you to take and learn from.
You travel on your journey through trials and tribulations. You eventually accomplish your affluent lifestyle. You mingle with a different set of friends. You have more freedom to access a better quality of life. You become more resilient in maintaining your wealth and your well-being. You take further risks professionally and privately, as your affluence opens doors for you.
You fall in love or have a strong inclination to someone. Someone that you can envisage living your life with. The relationship brings up hurdles and slippery paths as you embark with a particular living arrangement. The good times will be peppered with instances of making up, instances of healing, then coming to terms that at some point no amount of making up and healing can overcome some sensitive aspects of the relationship that is an open wound. You will still encounter jealousy, anxiety, angst through the mouths of those that envy you and how much you have accomplished from being different to others with affluence, opulence and power. Your mind and feelings may well turn to the past. Reliving a time where you felt more safe, happy and contented in your skin. This merely makes you stronger to want to succeed in all aspects of your life. Professionally. Socially. Privately. Happier in the skin that you wear. Happier in the look that you have. Happier with the speech that you relay. Everything is relative. You will not like everyone. Everyone will not like you. There shall certainly be people that crave your affluence more than they crave your personal company. Eager to spend your wealth as though it were theirs. You have to find your way amongst the thorns of others and love of some. Living in the here and now, so that you enable a good tomorrow from the yesterday of today.
Time to "Bye, bye" the haters, the naysayers, the groupies, the imposters who are certainly not serving you.
People hold secrets. People hold aspects of their past that they keep hidden and locked away. Too painful to bring to the fore. Too much baggage to carry in to the ‘new’ him/her. Your climb to affluence was made through some dubious arrangements. Through what others were quick to proclaim as ‘failures’, that you felt deeply merely required a kiss of life. Through errors that gained a helping hand. You have many scars (physically, emotionally and psychologically) from the battles of your years. You have felt love. You have felt hate. You have felt indifference. There were debts to pay on the struggle to affluence. The tangible debts easier to repay than the intangible ones.
At this established stage of your life in being different with affluence, you have a better radar as to whom you can count as support and whom you know are groupies or imposters; that lie to you just for kicks wanting to see your downfall. How can someone that looks as you do be affluent? How can someone from your impoverished background be affluent? How can someone who speaks as you do be affluent? How can someone with your life ‘disabilities’ be affluent? Answer, because you can. You who are different turns the world around. You who are different breaks down barriers. You who are different are stronger. You who are different are the new ‘progressors’. The new influencers. The new inspirations.
Never mind the haters who do not appreciate your difference. It is all about you loving you for being different. It always was. It always shall be.
There are more different individuals looking at your journey and finding inspiration in your struggles, in your journey. They are picking up their aspirations to be similar to you in their own skin. You enable their movement to a better life. You enable their inner strength to strive forward. You enable them to keep their dreams. You enable them to pass through the discord. You enable them to find a better way.
It has not all been a bouquet for you. Yet you have transcended from various storms of your life journey. You have used the support and love of those that have been truly honest and faithful to you, to aid your path. Each step; positive or negative, looking forward or backwards, can bring about change. Can bring about life lessons to be taken on board for the present. Can bring about life lessons for the future.
You are indeed different and it is the difference that can work for you, or against you, if you let it. Being different affords you a better life radar as you journey onwards and upwards. As you set a path and start walking.
So, with all that has happened along your life journey and all that is yet to come, does it not feel great to have turned that corner and feel comfortable in your own skin of being different?! That being different has opened up so many opportunities for you that you NEVER imagined! That being different is for you a prosperity producer. So yes, have the tears, revel in your tears of joy, happiness and beautiful inner peace as the here and now are yielding for you with gladness. The cancer of pain, misery, dread and self loathing is in remission. Lord only knows that you deserve this happiness of you from being different. It is from this joy of your acceptance of you being different, that your phoenix has risen from the ashes to deliver your dreams today.
If you are not coping well from dealing with being different, how are you feeling about the relationship with your own Self? The most important relationship in your life. How is that going?
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