Friends are absolutely irreplaceable in our lives. Sometimes parents or relatives can not give objective advice, just like your favorite people. Who will support you better than a friend? Who will not give out your secret? Someone will always help when you feel bad? Still true Russian saying: do not have a hundred rubles, and a hundred friends. That friends and make our greatest wealth.
How to be a good friend? How to be the one whose opinion is always relevant and authoritative? Imagine for itself: What would you like to see your best friend? Make certain ideal in mind – and that’s the answer to what the qualities of a good friend.
Firstly, always be sincere. Without a genuine, lively interest in the life of your girlfriend or boyfriend, you will not achieve their friendship. Whatever it was, but underestimate the people: they perfectly feel falsity. If you want to make it useful connections – for work or study – do not hide their true intentions. Be honest, and try to make sure that these links have been mutually beneficial.
Friendship, in a sense, too, mutually beneficial relationship. If you are just in time to listen to your boyfriend or girlfriend, trying to help with advice or deed, and he was in such a case, all of a sudden can not find the time for you, then you should know that this is not your friend. True friendship in a sense, like a mirror: if the good is the support that you give, do not come back, it should be limited to those persons their communication.
However, do not come to a friendship as a barter fair. We all have difficult times in life when a person physically can not repay you in kind. Remember that friend is known in trouble. Do not be petty, do not lead any calculations. This will bring you to the man insincere, mercantile and calculating. This one broke.
Communicate only with those people who are really interested in you, which you show genuine interest. Be worthy interlocutor. This implies first of all the ability to listen. Believe me, sometimes no classes more interesting than hearing about how a person talks about his own life. Listening to the experiences of his girlfriend or problems, you like with it, experiencing her situation. This is useful for both of you: first, talking once again about his troubles, your girlfriend if it lives again, but with you – with his girlfriend. This is a very beneficial effect on the emotional state. And secondly – if you do it live. Help your friend to overcome an obstacle, you will know for yourself what to do in such a case.
Never envy your friends, if they are more successful in your career or personal life. Always with a positive attitude to the success of loved ones. Friends will appreciate your dedication, and your conscience will be clean – then will feast on your street.
As said the famous writer: ” Each of our friend – a whole world for us, a world that could not be born and born only by our meeting with this person .” Appreciate friendship with each person! It’s a great gift.