Partners in abusive relationships — with psychopaths, narcissists, and other disordered individuals — often suffer in silence. This is especially true in marginalized communities… Read More
What I learned from the annual lust fest of the frogs in our estate
I’m attached to my anxieties, I hope you are too
Lady D and my good self have recently become Lord and Mistress of… Read More
When I was single, one of my happily-married best friends jokingly said “You’ll know you’ve met your match when you date someone you look like.” I shrugged her off &m… Read More
What a pompous ass I have been.
The reason I started blogging was an attempt on my part to figure out some order in the chaos brought on by my depression. With 43+ years of practice c… Read More
I’m the enemy of the unlived meaningless life.
This line struck me like the unexpected blow with the cane Zen teachers use to spark fire in the souls of acolytes on the edge of Nirva… Read More