Everyone’s life experience is different. Everyone has different hobbies, different views, different values, and different goals that make up their unique experience. You choose what you do and don’t believe in which you create what is real and what isn’t in your experience. This is why we have so many different religious views for example.

When you want to accomplish something you create that accomplishment for yourself. You don’t just get lucky and get what you need. When you go to college and graduate and find a good job you go through the steps of Finding a school, passing your classes, and then searching for a job. Finding a job is a result of hard work and determination. You can do anything and be whoever you want to be. This world and this life is your creation so express yourself and create the world you want to live in.