My mistress and I are both new to this. I've been tying up and getting tied up for over a decade, but these are basic role playing activities as a precursor to sex. Those have been great of course! Addictive even. However, I have been hoping for something "more intense" for lack of a better term. To explain another way, I want both the Bondage and the domination in the relationship and I want those to take a bigger chunk of our day to day lives. In short, I guess I'm an addicted bondage whore! ;-) But then again, who isn't?