Are you and your partner interested in exploring Butt play? Despite the emphasis we tend to put on anal sex (yawn), anal fun goes far beyond P in the A. It’s a whole new world in which to adventure, friends. There are a wide variety of toys that can be used to engage your partner’s butt.
If you’re looking to try butt stuff, might we suggest having your mate use a butt plug during intercourse? It isn’t just about “warming her up for anal sex.” Quite the contrary — using a plug can simply enhance overall sexual play in general. It can really change the game.
Wait, what’s a butt plug again?
You might be wondering what a Butt Plug actually is. Well, it’s just what it sounds like: a plug for the butt. It is a toy designed to stimulate the anal opening and, in male bodied people, the prostate. These toys are not gender-specific, and come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes.
Anyone can enjoy butt toys — yes guys, that includes you — but today, we’re going to look at why a female partner might want to try using a butt plug during penetrative sex. It could soon be one of your go-to toys.
The butt is full of nerve endings
Butt plugs add sensation to an already nerve-rich area. The opening of the anus is highly sensitive. You don’t need to stick something way up there to experience pleasure, and you also don’t need a prostate to enjoy anal play.
“The anal sphincter is an incredibly sensitive muscle and anyone, no matter their gender or sexual orientation, can enjoy different stimulating sensations,” Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator and founder of b-Vibe — a company that makes products for anal play — tells Men’s Health.
For female-bodied partners, using a plug can be a very interesting sensation when combined with sexual intercourse. It’s about a feeling of “fullness.” Her vagina isn’t only full, but the anus is as well, making for double the fun. Plus, it can make her feel more confident as a sexual being by taking a step into new sexual adventures.
“Exploring your body during intercourse with new toys adds a sexy element to the bedroom, making you feel more confident in turn!” Sinclair adds.
Check in with the A-spot
There is a pressure-based, nerve-clustered area in the back region of the vagina that can be reached during butt play and anal sex! Because of its location at the back end of the clitoris, hovering near the cervix, the A-spot (the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone) is pushed against the rectum. The vaginal wall and anus are next-door neighbors inside of the body.
With the right angling of a butt plug, you can reach this area. It won’t work for every woman’s body, but for those who enjoy anal stimulation, it can be a big, orgasmic winner.
“Depending on their individual body, some partners may even find that vibrating butt plugs stimulate the legs of their clitoris, which can extend back far around the external opening of the vagina,” Sinclair says. We’re talking full clitoral stimulus through the butt! Pretty incredible.
The A-spot is — now pay attention — part of the clitoris! That’s right. The clitoris goes far beyond the bud you see at the top of the inner labia. It extends inside the body up to five full inches, and it’s roughly the size of the average penis (we aren’t joking). It has bulbs and legs that sit under the labia and reach back into the abdomen.
Butt plugs can be a great first step into anal fun of all kinds
For those of you looking to expand your horizons, butt plugs are an excellent first step. You don’t just jump right into anal sex — this can be painful and uncomfortable. If you’re doing anything with the butt, it should NOT hurt.
A butt doesn’t naturally expand or lubricate the way a vagina does. You need to work up to anal sex, and a butt plug is a good place to begin. Buy a small plug and start there. See how your partner feels about the sensation. Let her get used to it. It might take a few days to a few months for a person’s butt to be trained to a point of taking a penis or dildo.
Be open-minded if she’s interested in your trying it as well. You might find you both discover incredible sensations you never thought possible.
How to use a butt plug during sex
Always start with a small-sized plug. You can try one that vibrates, or, if that’s not your thing, stick to one that offers a steady, solid fullness.
Be sure your partner’s anus is relaxed. Begin by massaging it with your fingers and have them breathe deeply into their body. Lube your toy up well and slowly insert it. Check in with her to make sure everything feels comfortable. Once the plug is in, you can just leave it there, moving on to other sexual play. The anus will hold it in place during intercourse.
Always communicate with each other. If she doesn’t like the feeling and wants to stop, take a break to remove the plug. You can always go back to business as usual once it’s out.
Remember: Never, ever put anything up a butt that does not have a flared base. The sphincter is a strong set of muscles. It can suck up a flat toy and get lost in the rectum, leading to an embarrassing trip to the ER. No one wants that.
Go forth. Be safe. Have fun.
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