Lets talk for a moment the difference between Average man Vs Pickup Player (guy who has been trained in seduction).
How does a average man seduces a girl?
How much money he spends?
Lets start with – how does an average man meets a new girl?
Most guys are limited with places where they meet new girls.
Everything starts at school and university. Its a good place to meet girls and get some girlfriends, but you can’t over do it, because you can collect bed reputation really fast. You sleep with 5-6 girls in same year, word about you will start to spread around.
Pickup Player in Work / Office
After Average man finishes university, next place where he tries to meet someone is in his office / work. We are all very aware of limitations of office. Don’t shit where you eat.
Social Circle
3rd step pool of meeting an new girl happens in social circle. Problem with social circle is again you are limited with about of new girls you meet. Usually its a long term friendships that tend to stay friendships. You are already in Let’s just be friend zone. Average guy solution – Internet dating sites
Dating Apps
Its seems like a logical solution for frustrated man. Sit at home and browse through profiles of girls and hope you will get one. Downside of internet dating and dating apps is that they are overused, and time consuming. You spend days and weeks of texting to get girl to meet you.
Dating
Even when you meet a girl and manage to get her on a date, average guy tend to freestyle and do what they have seen on TV or what worked for their parents – take a girl on a dinner date!
This is a moment where you start to lose money. If we say that average date lasts 2-3 hours and costs around $70-$80, and that is takes you 3-5 dates to get her in bed, it comes that you have spend 10-20 hours of talking and $200 or more to seduce her. That’s money wasted. Ineffective!
Don’t get me wrong, girls love when you spend money on them buy them things, take them to expensive places. And they love to give nothing in return as well. You, as a man, should be smart about your resources, you should be smart about your money and what you do with it.
Being a pickup player means using your resources in smart way. Being a pickup player means being consciously aware of every step of seduction.
We pickup players like to have bigger pool of options, so we go to places where you can meet lots of girls. Office or Social circles does not allows you that. So we go to bars, clubs, malls; Places where you can meet lots of different women.
We developed step by step process from meeting to getting her number or more. We optimized process to lose as less girls as possible. Since we pickup players are playing with bigger numbers (meeting 10-15) new girls per month, we cannot allow to spend $200 per girl to get her, so we optimized that process as well. We reduced cost and unnecessarily expenses. Being a pickup player means running your dating like you would run business.
Get biggest bang for your buck. Reduce time that you spend per girl, reduce money you spend per girl. Optimize process to be as smooth as possible. If you start to think about it, you will see that it actually makes sense.
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