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To The Girl Who Always Gets Dumped

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Show me a woman who has never had her heart broken,
and I'll show you a woman who has never really lived.
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To the girl who always gets dumped,

I know what you're thinking. 
That you're not pretty enough to hold his attention.
Or you're not hot enough to keep him hooked.

But, you're wrong.

You are lovely. And you are enough.

It's not your Fault that he is not content. He never was and he never will be.
It's not your fault that he is superficial. You are better off.
It's not your fault that he couldn't see your worth. That doesn't change who you are.

You Deserve more than what he's giving you; his spare time, his leftover feelings, his insincere affection.

If you only matter to him when he needs something from you,
If he's only available when his friends aren't around,
If he cares about his happiness more than your well-being...

Girl, you're better off.

You're better off than being used, being cheated on, being lied to and  hurt in any way.
You are better off alone and at peace, than with someone but carrying a heavy useless burden in your heart.

No, you don't deserve his insults. 
No, you don't deserve his slaps, or kicks or punches.
No, you don't deserve his vilification, condescension, and downplaying.
No, you don't deserve to be played and cheated on.

To the girl who always gets dumped,

You deserve joy.
You deserve affection.
You deserve undivided attention when you talk.
You deserve unceasing loyalty.
You deserve to be honored and cherished.
You deserve true love.

You deserve to be treated with respect and adoration. 

You deserve to be treated like a princess.
Because you are.
Aren't you the King's daughter?

You have been lied to far too many times that you may have started to believe it. And lived the way you were told to.

To the girl who always gets dumped,
Find yourself again. 
Find your beautiful, precious, love-worthy self.

Take your identity back.

Let go of your trashy past. It already happened. Stop holding on to it.

Forget about your vampires or Dementors.

Remember that you are loved and your value does not diminish despite the number of mistakes you did in the past.

Remember that your past does not define your future. (Bo Sanchez)

Remember that as cliche as it may sound, it's their loss and not yours.

To the girl who always gets dumped,
It's not your destiny to be ditched, so stop believing that's how you should be treated.

You were born a victor. You were made for greatness. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.

Go and fall in love again. But this time, love yourself first. Give to yourself first. Most of all, forgive yourself.

For it's not your fault that you loved more, you loved sincerely, and that you believed in the goodness of men, even those who weren't good to you.

It's not your fault that you believe in love in a world full of doubts. That you are genuine in a world full of fakes.

Stay real, be wiser, and be more careful in who you're giving your heart to.

Someone out there is waiting to give you all that you deserve. 

The puzzle will soon be complete, and you will see what a beautiful picture you have been a part of.

One day, your heart will be whole again.
And the day will come when it will all make sense. 

For now, enjoy the journey. Laugh at your boo boos. Feel your pain, and then let go.

Step out and see the world waiting for you to take it on.

To the girl who always gets dumped, you are beautiful. You deserve to be loved. Remember that.



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