How do you Approach love?

• How does one be both intentional and surrendered?
  

There are many ways we approach love…

Some of us take the “if it’s meant to be it will just happen” approach. Others take charge and go into “make it happen” mode. I believe that it’s a combination of the two that is the winning ticket.

I believe that meeting your soulmate has a certain amount of ” meant-to-be-ness to it… AND it requires a big dose of “make-it-happen-ness.”

Practice Intention!

Practicing intention, surrender, focus, and detachment coupled with trust, belief, knowingness, and patience is the recipe for success. And I realize that this is a paradox…. How does one be both intentional and surrendered? 

When I am being Intentional, I have a clear feeling and picture of what my desire is AND I also am detached from the outcome. I remind myself of these personal truths:

Personal Truths

• I know and trust that life will continue to be great whether or not my desire is fulfilled.
• I surrender to divine timing and to destiny (knowing this or something better is on the way) and my happiness and wellbeing isn’t dependent on having my wishes granted.

The daily “conscious” practice of these truths require emotional maturity and awareness.

It’s worth the effort to master this practice as it will give you freedom to be “with what is” while manifesting your deepest desires!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

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