When it comes to getting back together with their ex, most people just skip a very important part.

They skip the fact that you have to give you ex a very good reason to come back to you.

Kind of obvious when you think about it, dontcha think?

But what these people focus on instead are stunts, Gimmicks, or band-aid solutions. You know, things like “reverse psychology,” “magic text messages,” or “pushing their ex’s emotional hot buttons.”

I really shouldn’t have to say this, but that kind of thinking is just going to cause you more problems in the long run.

Will those sorts of gimmicks get your ex’s attention?

Maybe.

The more important question you should be asking yourself is this:

Will those sorts of gimmicks give your ex a damn good reason for getting back together with you?

Probably not.

When it comes down to it, the only way you can create the “holiday miracle” you may be hoping for this year is to actually give your ex a good reason to get back together with you.

(Spoiler alert: you’re not going to do this by playing mind games with them.)

What is going to get them to want to come back to you?

It’s when the emotional connection between the two of you is as strong as Superman when he’s standing in the sun.

How do you do that?

It’s all down to how well you can connect with your ex.

And that’s what the Advanced Relational Skills inside the Ex Solution Program aim to do.

They’re designed to help you strengthen the emotional bond between you and your ex so that it becomes obvious to them that they should get back together with you.

And when that happens, you don’t need any gimmicks. You don’t need to obsess over every text message or Facebook posts. You don’t need to plan everything out so much.

Instead, you can just enjoy being together, the way things used to be before the breakup.

So, if you want your “holiday miracle” this year, I’m going to suggest that you really drop the stunts and gimmicks. They’re not going to get you any closer to that moment that you’re hoping for–that moment where there’s a long drawn out silence at the end of a date where neither one of you wants to say goodbye… that moment that ends with a passionate kiss and “the talk” about getting back together.

What is going to get you there?

Learning how to have a better emotional impact on your ex through relational skills.

And if that’s something you’d like to learn, feel free to join us in the Ex Solution Program course right here.

-Clay