Virtually every woman can benefit from advice on calling men. This is one aspect of a relationship that most of us struggle with. We want nothing more than to have the man we love pick up the phone once in a while to call us. If you are one of the many women guilty of waiting endlessly for your man to call, you're not alone. This happens to many of us and leaves us wondering what exactly we should be doing to change the dynamic of the relationship so he's the one picking up the phone and calling instead of us having to always do it. If you're tired of your man's nonchalant attitude towards phone calls, now is the time to change it.
One piece of advice on calling men that you may have overlooked is to stop calling him when he's late calling you. As women we have a habit of becoming a bit panicky if we haven't heard from our man when he said we would. A good example is if your boyfriend says he'll call you in the afternoon to make plans for that night, and it's now approaching evening. Instead of making your own plans since you haven't heard from him, you wait all evening and perhaps into the night for him to call. When he doesn't contact you, you're frustrated and angry and call him complaining about his lack of interest and respect. Doing this won't change anything. In fact, it only serves to show him that his lack of attention to you has really no consequences and even if he doesn't call, you eventually will.
If you find yourself in this situation the best advice on calling men is to not call him. Even if an entire day passes since he said he'd call, don't pick up the phone to track him down. Let as much time as needed pass before he calls you. Once he does call, act a little distant and disinterested. Don't be rude to him. Treat him more like a friend than a boyfriend. This is subtle, but if you can do it, you'll show him, through your actions, that he doesn't have you in the palm of his hand. If he senses that you're starting to lose interest in him, because of his behaviour, he'll smarten up quickly and before you know it he'll be the one always calling you.
You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you.