Hey diva's, are you worried about your biological clock?
Are you under pressure to conform because other’s will think you’re frigid because you don’t want to have sex with the macho stud?
Hey, guys, do you wonder why the other stud's all have those super-hot dates they skite about while you’re quite happy to have a chat and a cuddle with your girlfriend in the back seat of your dad’s car?
Perhaps you are one of the ones who won’t take a risk because it can be embarrassing?
- What if he sneers at you because you’re not an experienced kisser?
- What if she rejects you when you ask her out on a date?
- Play the poor-fellow-me game and drop out of life; or
- Get over it and go have some more practice.
I’m not downplaying the effects of rejection and the like – rather, the effects are usually magnified by our imaginations when we let our ego get in the way and not look beyond the hurt to find new horizons.
There is another way. We can always learn from the experience and look for those things that are clearly important to us.
- Was your choice of partner an accident or something you sought?
- What did you look for?
- Where did you look?
- Did you rely on someone else’s opinion?
- Were you putting out for, putting up with or going for it?
- Did you have a clue what you wanted?
“Know thyself” has been around for millennia.
