One of the hardest things about a relationship that has come to an end, but is not quite over is how to get that person to return your calls. You may be looking for some "magic" words that will do the trick. You ask yourself, "What do I need to say to have my calls returned?" I am here to tell you that there ARE beautiful, magical, words you can use that will befall your EX like a spell and you'll get that return call you've been anxiously awaiting.

I am going to share that secret with you because it is one of the most frequently asked questions I receive from over 30,000 subscribers who are trying to mend their relationships. So I am going to lay out a complete plan for you. It is outlined in the "Magic of Making Up". One of the techniques is a sure winner, but, be warned, if you use it without having an overall plan, you could damage your relationship beyond repair!

Consider this before we review the "magical words". Here are some sample messages that NEVER work. What's even worse, is, that mentally, they place you at a disadvantage. The messages usually fall in two separate categories. One is the "plead" message and the other is the "emergency" message.

Sample One the PLEAD: "Bill, please, please return my call. This is my fourth call. I am trying to reach you, I GOT to TALK to you, please.

Sample Two the EMERGENCY: Becky, call me, it's an emergency. As soon as you pick up this message, CALL ME. I know you're familiar with these approaches and you know the outcome.

Here are two simple strategies to use to your advantage. These two words are extremely powerful in the human mind: self interest and curiosity. The BIG SECRET is that when you put them together you form a situation that works like "magic"! Let's take a peak at some examples that WORK everytime! Be sure to use a friendly, non threatening tone.

"Hi, Bill. Becky here. Just called to tell you I really appreciate what you did for me. Call me back so that I can thank you in person." Are you picking up the "magical" words of "curiosity" and "self interest" in this message? Bill will be too curious not to return the call. He'll be asking himself,"Now, I can't remember what I did that she's thanking me for." Bill feels great because it's a positive message.

When you leave such a message, you need to think of any little thing that your EX did that you appreciated. Remember, it's got to be believable. But better yet, have an action plan, like the ones found in "The Magic of Making Up" BEFORE you make that call. If you don't have a plan you could further hurt the relationship.

In other words, it's more important to know what to do BEFORE, DURING, and AFTER your EX returns your call rather than just getting them to call you back.Does it not make more sense to HAVE A PLAN?

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