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Why You Should Stop Overthinking around Women

Cliché, but yes – Overthinking kills. It destroys not just your self-concept and self-esteem; not just your relationship with anyone or anything; but also your capability to attract women.

Overthinking around women will make you nervous and getting nervous around them while you trip over your own feet is not cool.

Why do you overthink anyway? It could be one of these things:

• You fear that you’re doing the wrong thing and this will lead to nothing at all.
• You get too conscious of yourself.
• You are thinking too hard about what to say next.
• You worry that things will go wrong once you do the next move.

All of these can be avoided by doing one thing: stop overthinking. Why do you need to stop it?

1. You will lose her.

You see, women are paranoid most of the times. Once girls figure out that you are more paranoid than them, you have to say goodbye to your chances of winning. When you start to overthink about things that don’t really matter, you are scaring them and making them feel that you don’t trust them. You also make them think that you don’t trust yourself anyway. Why would you overthink in the first place if you are not confident with what you can do and what you can offer? Show some balls and stop being anxious.

2. You will make things worse.

If you’re not sure how to behave and what to do and you’re afraid that something wrong will occur, think of a solution instead of overthinking. Women like men who are independent and who can handle themselves. If you’re worried about how to impress women, the solution is simple: Just be yourself. This idea might be overrated but it works.

3. You are missing life.

You don’t want to waste your life regretting over something you should have done but didn’t. Like going to the club and talking to that sexy woman in high stilettos or acing a conversation with the pretty girl at the coffee table next to yours. When you are thinking too much about something, you become distracted and you fail to see the beauty of living life to the fullest. This means, you fail to make girls attracted to you.
Flip the cards and change your fate. Stop overthinking and see for yourself. Before you know it, women will start to get nervous around you.

Why You Should Stop Overthinking around Women
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