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Be Smart about meeting women

My views here are completely derived from my experiences in India and mostly Mumbai.

High Volume Environment is the chant most people will voice when asked which are the best places or ideal scenarios to meet APROACHABLE girls.

Now the key word in title of the post is APPROACHABLE.

For me nothing is more important in an environment than the Approachability Factor.

What is APPROACHABILITY factor?

A scenario where both parties, approaching person and being approached person are comfortable in getting into an act which is not socially well promoted or encourage. The act being getting to know each other and explore possibilities between the two.

Let me start with nightclubs. In my humble opinion nightclubs are not the most ideal place to meet girls. In fact they are at low end of the scale.
Even though it is socially acceptable place to approach girls. It is not a good place specifically for a man to explore the chemistry with a girl. Even though on the surface it seems like that he is getting somewhere but most girls (specifically Saturday night) are just seeking validation.

The worst part of nightclubs are that it seems to a man that he is getting somewhere with the girl he is engaging with because in most cases reality differs than what it seems.

Streets a high volume environment. But APPROACHABILITY factor is the worst for obvious reasons. Good to practice anxiety annihilation though.

What girls I am looking For?

Alone ideally, looks like she has time in her hand, not doing something terribly important or in terribly hurry, looking around (Best case scenario) and has a receptive energy (sorry I can’t describe this one), feeling of comfort because of environment and some common factor.

Let me clear I am not saying all the above mention factors should be necessarily binded together.

Where And when will I find girls like those?

Coffee shops like Starbucks, book stores, malls (sitting area) (walking slowly and look lost), inside women’s clothing stores, OLA cabs(luck matters), festivals or events, jogging parks, a shopping street, an entertainment street, lounges with not loud music.

Time.
In my experience in malls afternoon time after lunch is preferable.
Weekdays are much more preferable than weekends even in lounges. I am ok with low volume but I am looking for right girls.

Mornings like before 12pm is not advisable.

See at the end of the day you want to meet people who are looking to meet you.

The most Ideal Girl- A pre ovulating woman



This post first appeared on Way Of Women, please read the originial post: here

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