Want to get your ex back?

Dying to experience the warm hugs, whispers of love, and companionship of your girlfriend again?

Then I am going to teach you how to get your ex- girlfriend back easily.

Ready to go?

Then keep reading…

Related: How To Get Back Together With Your Ex

1.     Appraise Yourself

Do soul-searching and ask yourself certain questions. This will help you to appreciate the value of the relationship you had with your ex. Furthermore, it will help you to see how badly you messed up.

That realization will help you to become a better lover and you will value your ex better when you succeed in reuniting with her.

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2.    Send Messages

Don’t Give Her Space

You know how it feels when you break contact with someone and you don’t hear from the person, right? You forget them, right?

And as the days go by and you still don’t hear from them, you completely forget that they exist, right?

That is what will happen when you break contact with your ex- girlfriend and you give her space and time to meet new guys and nurture relationships with these guys.

Because she is confused at this time and emotionally vulnerable, she is likely to jump at any guy who says sweet words and shows just a little bit of affection or care.

Why You Should Send Messages

However, if you want to get your ex back and you keep contacting her through text messages, or when you continue calling her, she will continue to think about you. And she may reminisce about the great times you had together and what you shared as boyfriend and girlfriend.

When she reflects, she may make a choice to give you another chance. In short, you will make it hard for her to move on and that can increase the likelihood that she will choose to get back together with you.

So, act like a man and take the initiative!

Send Messages That Will Create Uncertainty In Her Mind

The kinds of messages you Send can increase the chances that she will look back instead of choosing to move on.

• Avoid sending messages such as “I need you,” or “I love you. I miss you. Please come back,” or “We are made for each other.”
• Send her messages that will make her see that it is safer for her to stick with you, rather than taking a chance with a guy that she does not know, and who may not treat her well, anyway, because he is as human as you are.
• Because “the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know,” it may create apprehension in her mind and she may try to make things work.
• For example, you may send a message such as this, “Please reconsider the step you are taking. There is no guarantee that you may have a great relationship with another guy. We can still work things out, you know…”
• However, avoid texting her every day, calling her every day, or visiting her Facebook or Twitter page to send her messages. Doing that may make her feel that you are desperate to get back with her and that may unnerve and irritate her.
• Send her messages at most three times a week. Leave one day in between the days you send the message. It will give her time to reflect.

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3.    Take Advantage Of Bumping Into Her

Another thing you can do to help you get your ex back easily is to make her reminisce whenever you meet, as well as control conversations you have when you meet.

Make Her Reminisce

When you meet her unintentionally, grab the opportunity and make her reminisce about the quality times you spent together. Hit on the “right emotional notes” and make her feel that you form a great team

For example, if you spent a great day at a lake in the past, and you both enjoyed the experience, you may say something such as this when you meet her, “Hey! How is life treating you? Well, I am feeling great, like the way I felt on that Saturday when we spent the whole day at Lake Bosomtwi. You remember that day? Yeah, it was a great experience, wasn’t it? Do you think about it sometimes? I loved that day and I wish we could…”

Leave the final sentence hanging. It may help to provoke a response, which will start a conversation about that experience.

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Direct The Conversation

Show leadership and dictate the direction of the conversation so that she will cast her mind back to that day or experience.

Center the conversation around love and relationships. Drop hints about how lovely you think your relationship was, and how great you think both of you were as a lovers. She will get the message that you still want her back. That can be the start of a new friendship that can end in a reunion.

Subsequently, she may recall those enjoyable moments you talked about because of the positive feelings that may be induced in her and she may give your past relationship a lot of thought.

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4.    Create “Accidental” Meetings

Find out about her movements and her itinerary and “bump” into her “accidentally” at the mall, at the park, at an empty coffee shop, or when she is on her way to school.

Make sure you bump into her when the following conditions exist:

• It must be in a place where she is alone so that you can engage her and have a great conversation with her. That conversation may make her feel a connection and she may seriously consider a comeback.
• It must be at a time when she is not busy. This will give you ample time to woo her and bond with her to make her miss the past.
• It must be at a time when she is happy. When she feels positive, she is more likely to give you a great reception when you try to start a conversation.
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5.    Use Jealousy, If She Is A Possessive

Some ladies, especially the possessive ones, don’t appreciate what they had, and don’t appreciate what they are letting go, unless prompted by jealousy. They normally feel a sense of loss and get to know what they may lose when they see  their ex going out with another person.

Why Clingy, Possessive Ladies Fall For Jealousy

Even after such ladies break up with guys, they still want to see their exs single and available. Although they may not be interested in the guy at the moment, they also don’t want someone to get the guy.

And, sometimes, when you hurt them, they just break up with you because they want to feel important: they want you to see that you are wrong and they are right. They expect you to humble yourself and come begging.

However, when you choose to date another woman, when she sees you with someone else, and you let her see that you are enjoying the new association, it may hurt her pride and ruffle her emotions.

In other words, she will feel that the other woman is “taking” someone who belongs to her, and that may jolt her out of her pride and make her comeback so that she can keep her “asset.”

But, ensure that you choose to date someone who may not get emotionally involved with you. And inform this person about what you intend to achieve so that lady does not suffer a broken heart.

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6.    Show Extra Affection To Your Ex

You know how your feelings and thoughts are swayed when someone showers extra affection on you, after the person has hurt you, right?

You ruminate and reflect on how the person is treating you, and you think something such as, “That person must really love me! If she didn’t, she would not be going the extra mile to make me feel happy. I must reconsider how I feel about her,” right?

That can happen in this situation too! when you show affection to her, she may experience a rekindling of affection for you and choose to build trust again instead of forgetting about all that you built together as lovers.

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Points To Remember

To get your ex- girlfriend back:

• don’t give her time and space to make her emotions settle;
• charm her whenever you meet;
• create “coincidental” meetings; and
• shower her with affection.
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