2021-08-17 02:59
Well, today is Monday, August 16. My last day of work at the daycare is Friday, August 20.
I’m going to miss all of it. A job that I’ve been at for over 13 years. A boss who… Read More
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Hi, I am a shy, reserved, quiet and introverted girl that seems to have trouble making and keeping relationships. Not just romantic ones but friendship ones as well. Join me as we journey through this whole experience together.
2021-06-06 05:10
The sermon series that my church is going through is about forgiveness and reconciliation. This has truly gotten me thinking. I had reached out to my friend earlier this year, but to be perf… Read More
2021-04-17 00:40
I honestly don’t know where to start.
For those that don’t know, I work in a daycare. I’ve been here for 13 years.
I have a great coworker that I get along wonderfull… Read More
2021-02-04 17:00
Wow, so it really has been a long time since I last wrote (the other day being the exception)
What is happening? In my life and in the world? So much has happened and I don’t even k… Read More
2021-02-04 17:00
Wow, so it really has been a long time since I last wrote (the other day being the exception)
What is happening? In my life and in the world? So much has happened and I don’t even k… Read More
2021-02-03 01:21
I don’t know where to start. To sum up previous posts and to catch everyone up.
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August 2016 – my roommate (at the time) and I were in a friends weddin… Read More
2020-06-06 01:53
A couple of days ago I was reading in ‘Our Daily Bread’ The topic was forgiveness. At the end the author had written this,
Is your heart open to forgive? How might you experie… Read More
2020-05-24 15:57
I think I have mentioned this before. I have two friends that have recently had babies. Momma #1 had a baby in March and Momma #2 had a baby a few days ago.
Well, back when we found out t… Read More
2020-01-30 02:24
So we’ve talked about my guy friend recently. Things seem to be ok, or, well, decent.
He’s apologized for the way he’s acted, acknowledged the money lent and said he wil… Read More
2019-12-17 20:55
If you remember back a month or so ago I had written a letter to my close guy friend about a broken friendship. Well last week he sent me this message (some details are changed in brackets)… Read More
2019-10-23 01:27
Ok, we know all about my past relationships and the pain that went through with it all.
Well, let’s rewind a little. I dated A from November 2015-February 2016, when he ended things be… Read More
2019-10-22 01:00
Great news! This past week I found out that 2 of my best friends are pregnant!
Now don’t get me wrong, I am thrilled that their families of 2 are expanding to families of 3.
But the th… Read More
2019-10-21 00:00
I don’t have a lot of guy friends and the ones that I do have are not super close or they last for a short time.
This one guy friend and I have been friends since 2013 possibly even 20… Read More
2019-10-20 03:00
I know it’s been awhile since I posted and a lot has gone on since then that I don’t really know where to start.
I mentioned last year that my sister-in-law asked my brother for… Read More
2018-11-06 22:02
I’m trying to decide the best way to approach a conversation with my sister-in-law after her startling revelation of wanting a divorce. I realise that these questions can be personal a… Read More
2018-11-01 20:39
I know I haven’t posted for awhile, and so much has happened over the past little while, especially the last month.
Over Canadian Thanksgiving (Oct 6) my fiance and I got married and t… Read More
2018-08-23 23:12
Ok. I live in a 2 bedroom condo and have had a roommate for the past two years. But with my upcoming wedding this fall, things were going to need to change. My roommate was going to need to… Read More
2018-05-27 16:53
It is with great sadness I share about the passing of my grandmother. This past month and a half has seen different things in my life and her life. As things are looking up for me, they bega… Read More
2018-05-04 04:04
A little over a year ago we thought we were going to lose my grandma. And now. Now it looks like it really is the end. Her lymph glands are shutting down, the tumour in her lungs has increas… Read More
2018-04-13 19:56
I have a friend, he’s almost like a younger brother to me, and I suppose for that reason I feel the need to stand up for him now. Anyway, he met this girl at a Valentine’s Day pa… Read More
2018-03-03 02:43
Relationships can come in many different forms. Friendships. Romantic. Family. Work. Roommates. Acquaintances. Many different forms. And they can ask intermingle but how you assess one, how… Read More
2018-02-21 04:45
Between work and a boyfriend I haven’t had a whole lot of me time lately, which time with him has been good and I haven’t needed it quite as much as I normally do. But over the n… Read More
2018-01-15 17:58
Is it weird that as an introvert that I want my relationship status known?
So, on our date on Friday, I finally brought up the dtr (determine the relationship) as I couldn’t wait anymo… Read More
2018-01-14 05:33
Well, I noticed today on my blog that today is my blogaversary. Thanks all for reading and commenting throughout the year. I’m sure that more will come up, but just wanted to say thank… Read More
2018-01-14 00:46
So roommate had been on and off looking for a guy online. I can’t blame her. It’s lonesome and tiring being alone.
Well today she was telling me about a conversation with one guy… Read More
2018-01-06 23:49
Last night we got together for a fun date of mini-golf, but then ended the night going for a drive to a lookout point to see over the city. No, not a make out point, just a lookout.
We walke… Read More
2018-01-04 21:04
OK, so a bit of back story as to why I am now feeling speechless …
About a month ago, the guy that I am currently seeing, we will call him E, asked me what I would like for Christmas… Read More
2017-12-12 21:44
How do you as an introvert cope with dating? I’ve dated a little bit in the past but guys always seem to end things with me because I’m too quiet and don’t open up.
Current… Read More
2017-12-02 05:13
Why is this so hard to understand? To me quality time is important. And I value different types of quality time with different people. For me my quality time with my roommate is watching TV… Read More
2017-11-28 04:09
I don’t like change. I know that there are things about everyone that someone doesn’t like, but telling me that you don’t like something about me and that you want me to st… Read More
2017-11-10 21:14
I don’t know why I am getting nervous all of a sudden. I have been talking (well texting, cause I don’t do well with talking) to this guy for about a month now. And the lack of w… Read More
2017-11-10 21:14
I don’t know why I am getting nervous all of a sudden. I have been talking (well texting, cause I don’t do well with talking) to this guy for about a month now. And the lack of w… Read More
2017-10-18 05:05
Ok, I know this part isn’t about the book, but let me just start with my frustrations about the oh so wonderful ‘hashtag’. There is a time and a place for it, and actually… Read More
2017-10-17 02:38
Reading through the book ‘Text, Don’t Call’ I’ve come across little introverted comics that seem to speak to me and about me. Some of the comics in the book aren&rsqu&hell…Read More
2017-10-13 05:46
“And it’s great to be an introvert! There are so many wonderful qualities that come with having this particular preference. For instance, we introverts are wired to focus and con… Read More
2017-10-01 08:16
Ok, I have this friend, we’ve known each other for 3 years now, and I have talked about her before, how my roommate was invited to her birthday and I wasn’t, thinking it may have… Read More
2017-09-22 19:43
Ok, so last weekend had some good and some not so great factors to it.
Friday night I was at a big event, in line for something and look over and see Guy ‘D’ that had just ended… Read More
2017-09-16 00:35
Well, tomorrow I am trying something new. Something out of my comfort zone, something I’ve never done before. I’m excited but at the same time I am nervous.
I am going to a Chris… Read More
2017-09-11 19:25
Ugh, why is the pain there so much? It seems that every guy that I have ever remotely been interested in is either in a relationship or wanting to be in one with someone else.
It’s jus… Read More
2017-09-01 00:17
I am not one to spread my wings and share publicly for people to know how I really feel. This is me being vulnerable. Me being real. I am desperate for me time. For time to myself, to take t… Read More
2017-08-29 19:41
Well, I tried not to overthink too much about last night, act natural and let things take their course.
We went to a movie and then out for coffee. Well, let’s just say I had a reason… Read More
2017-08-28 05:11
Ok, I like getting advice from different people, at different walks in their lives.
So I have already mentioned D. We had gone on 6 dates in 3 weeks and then due to differing schedules and u… Read More
2017-08-12 14:40
Ok, so I was on summer holidays from work July 17-28. I just had a simple stay-cation. Keeping busy but also making sure to have down time and time to rest for myself.
Then my roommate was o… Read More
2017-08-11 19:42
I started writing this blog after C broke up with me. I guess that it was a way for me to help understand myself. Figure out what was bothering me and where the different relationships in my… Read More
2017-07-21 00:09
Can I just say that my introverted self is really looking forward to next week. I am currently on holidays for 2 weeks. And my roommate is away next week. But with her work schedule I always… Read More
2017-07-18 18:52
I heard someone the other day describe themselves as a social introvert, and that really go me thinking. I am a social introvert. I crave time with others, whether one on one or even in a gr… Read More
2017-06-24 18:30
Well, today’s the day. Today is the day that A gets married. He broke up with me less than a year and a half ago because he didn’t have time for a relationship and wasn’t r… Read More
2017-06-18 07:11
This is what I read the other day for my devotionals and my thoughts surrounding it.
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How long, O LORD? Will you forget me forever?
How long will you hide your face from me?
Ho… Read More
2017-06-08 19:57
Ok, so both my roommate and I are single. Both of us have been looking online without having any luck.
The other day she joined a free online dating site that I’m on. Well, in the span… Read More
2017-05-25 05:33
Ok, so it’s coming up on a year of my roommate and I being roommates and there are things that had bugged me and irked me, but I’ve never told her. One of which I feel like she s… Read More
2017-04-28 05:25
Ok, so I’m really not sure if this is because I’m quiet and it’s an oversight or I’m just not as good friends with someone as I thought.
This evening, I let the first… Read More
2017-04-26 19:41
So as we all know, yes, I am single, unattached, no perspectives in site. But this does not seem to phase certain friends who have found their happiness. They think that I can hang out… Read More
2017-04-22 07:45
Last weekend was Easter. I was expecting happy times with family and friends. Sure I know that no family get together is perfect and there’s always something, but I didn’t really… Read More
2017-04-10 19:43
Well, this morning, my roommate sent me a message (guess it was actually last night but I only saw it this morning) about how much she appreciates me and that I’m always there for her… Read More
2017-03-31 19:55
Ok, so we got together yesterday. Leading up to it, I was so nervous and anxious about the outcome that it was taking quite the toll on me. When I pulled up to the coffee shop I was pretty s… Read More
2017-03-30 19:30
I’m not one to typically get anxious over something, but this upcoming conversation is giving me some anxiety. I am hoping for a positive outcome with my friend but I just don’t… Read More
2017-03-25 05:36
So, for some reason when I have a plan for myself, I can’t seem to follow through with it.
I had fully intended on a nice relaxing evening at home, having time to myself. My roommate w… Read More
2017-03-22 05:19
Ok, so after Saturday’s awkward night seeing my friend. I did some thinking, and a bit of praying of my own. Went back on fourth with whether or not I wanted to reach out again and tel… Read More
2017-03-19 06:43
This is not fair, I don’t know what the problem is and she won’t talk to me and as much as I wanted to go to events to make her face facts that we would still see each other, ton… Read More
2017-03-17 02:49
So, last week, March 6, I called my friend. Unfortunately she didn’t answer, but I told her I missed her, I told her I wanted to get together and talk, I told her I wanted to work thin… Read More
2017-03-11 07:24
Ok, so my roommate wants me to tell her when there are things bothering me and that I should speak up more instead of keeping thing bottled up inside.
Well, the other day I got so tired of h… Read More
2017-03-06 02:35
So, for some reason this post never got posted … I’m not quite sure why, I wrote it back on February 24 …
I am not one that is good at being assertive, but yeste… Read More
2017-03-05 18:26
For some reason, I keep replaying my last date with C in my head (if you are unsure of what all went on go back and find ‘Cs Heartbreak’ from January 15)
I guess I’m going… Read More
2017-03-02 21:10
So last night I got together with a girlfriend. I figured I wanted to talk to a friend that didn’t know my friend that I have been having communication issues with lately.
So, talking… Read More
2017-02-28 20:00
One Day, one day the man that will heal me from hurt and brokenness will help bring me to be the woman I am and love me for who I am Read More
2017-02-28 03:09
For the sake of keeping things hush hush without saying who is who, roommate is my roommate and friend is the friend that I’ve (or we’ve been having issues with)
So, 3 weeks afte… Read More
2017-02-27 20:00
There is someone out there for everyone, I am learning that it’s not always easy to find that person, but as much as I am trying to look and pursue, one day I will find that person th… Read More
2017-02-26 20:00
We all have those friends that are there for us no matter what. Pick the friends that are best for you and that are willing to be there for you through thick and thin. They are the ones tha… Read More
2017-02-25 20:00
It’s so very true, it’s difficult, especially when the person that you have feelings for has moved on and you are stuck in the same spot, something that I am dealing with more n… Read More
2017-02-24 20:00
Our relationships are so precious to us that we want to fight to make them work. Romantic, friendship, family. They all mean the world to us. But losing one is like losing a part of oneself… Read More
2017-02-23 20:00
It’s just a matter of timing, of waiting on things for them to happen. Our relationships mean the world to us, one day the right one will walk into our lives and we will forget the re… Read More
2017-02-22 20:42
Last night I had a girlfriend message me and some other friends. I felt so honoured that she would included me into this insight of her life. I feel like I don’t know her super well. W… Read More
2017-02-22 20:00
My first has moved on, but what’s more important is my last, my last is waiting for me and one day I will find him Read More
2017-02-21 20:00
Our hearts are so delicate and can be broken by anyone or anything. I have had friends hurt me and guys hurt me. The guys have all moved on, but my friends, I need to be careful with my fri… Read More
2017-02-20 20:00
I am worthy. Remember. I. Am. Worthy. No man can take that away from me. He needs to be worthy of me, I don’t need to find my worth in him Read More
2017-02-19 20:00
Certain people are in your life for a short time. Others for a long time. But the best ones are there for a lifetime. No matter the length of time that someone is in your life, enjoy it. Go… Read More
2017-02-19 02:00
Ok, after the somewhat emotional week I’ve had, to the long weekend I just put in, and the news I just received, I need to post something. I’m not allowed to say anything on Face… Read More
2017-02-18 20:00
We are not defined by who we are with. That doesn’t make us, us. We are meant to be happy with where we are in life, and who is there with us. Past relationships can only do so much f… Read More
2017-02-17 20:00
Last year at this time, I felt broken, that I would never feel whole again. I still hurt. There is still pain from past failed relationships. But I am doing my best to move on, I may not al… Read More
2017-02-16 20:00
We all need to admit that we are not perfect. But admitting that we not perfect apart, but the two of us together makes a perfect couple is one of the greatest things that we can all hope f… Read More
2017-02-16 00:50
I don’t know where this came from, but I was sitting with a group of girlfriends last night, seeing as we were all single and it was the one day a year that single females don’t… Read More
2017-02-15 20:00
It is so very true. We don’t like tension between us and others. Misunderstanding can lead to far to many falling-outs. I hate not knowing. Not knowing where I stand with friends. Not… Read More
2017-02-14 20:00
Just like my friendship from ‘Mere Misunderstanding’ You need to understand that people were made the way they were made. Don’t try and change them. Not in a friendship, n… Read More
2017-02-14 16:35
So, I am not one that can easily express my feelings. I would rather go out of my way to avoid conversations like that, even ones that express good feelings. So now I’m going to write… Read More
2017-02-13 20:00
It may hurt, but it’s true. If someone is unwilling to make time for you (I realise that you don’t bail on previously made plans) but if they are unwilling to make time for you… Read More
2017-02-12 23:10
One of my friends has pointed out that maybe lately I am putting up an introverted wall because I don’t want to get hurt by anyone again. Straight off the bat I am telling people that… Read More
2017-02-12 20:00
Before we can really find the godly man that God has intended for us, we must first find out who we are. Work on who we really are and love ourselves fully. Take care of yourself before sea… Read More
2017-02-11 20:00
I have decided that for the rest of this month, and maybe for months to come (will see how long this all lasts) I’m going to find quotes and share quotes. February, since it’s al… Read More
2017-02-11 19:33
Well, as hard as I thought that yesterday was going to be, surprisingly it wasn’t. Maybe because I never actually voiced to anyone what the day was, what the meaning of the day was. I… Read More
2017-02-10 16:05
My relationship with A may very well be the hardest one I have to write. He was my first date, my first boyfriend and my first love. And he was the hardest to get over. A part of me still lo… Read More
2017-02-06 22:53
So I got this text from my friend yesterday while I was at church, this is the same friend from my original Mere Misunderstandings post. I had waited all that evening for her to call and she… Read More
2017-01-31 06:29
So, I was all ready to go to bed tonight and my roommate came home and wanted to talk to me about her excitement from the evening. In the end she had some encouraging words for me.
“Th… Read More
2017-01-30 18:17
I found out late last night that A got engaged on the weekend and I can’t even bring myself to tell anyone. A part of me still loves him, probably always will seeing as he was my first… Read More
2017-01-29 05:18
Well, lets get back at it, for what happened with another failed relationship. This one lived 3 hours away from me.
May 1, 2016 I started talking to B online. We hit it off right away, so mu… Read More
2017-01-27 05:33
Ok, the end of yesterday wasn’t as bad as I had dreaded. Had dinner with my roommate and saw a movie. In the end I was crying over the true story in ‘Lion’ instead of silly… Read More
2017-01-25 20:35
Leading up to today I knew that it would be a bad and hard day. For some reason, birthday’s affect me more than they should. C broke up with me 2 and a half weeks ago and today is his… Read More
2017-01-25 03:23
Ok, so the night that C broke up with me, I sent the following text to a couple of girlfriends:
“So … I don’t know how I feel.
Apparently I’m the kinda girl that he… Read More
2017-01-23 03:05
Ok, so I have realized in recent days that when I was younger it was a lot easier for me to speak my mind. Telling people when to do things or that sort of thing. And really this wasn’… Read More
2017-01-19 03:59
So one of my friends posted this thing on Facebook that if you liked their status, they will give you encouragement back. So this is what my friend said about me:
“You are a great frie… Read More
2017-01-15 17:36
Ok, so now that it’s been a week, I think I’ve processed enough and am ready to share the story of caution and heartbreak that I had with C.
As I stated before, I started talking… Read More
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