many times we see many aged couples around us who r Happily Married for many yrs....i always wonder what might made have them so much years tegether successfully? cos when now we see almost everybody is complaining about the Marriage and hw they suffer in marriage........Then what is the secret of "their marriage?"
I think one needs to know few things about marriage first of all there is no instant remedy for marriage, one has to give lotsa things like patience, devotion,love, caring, these all things u hv to put and then you will say ours is a hapy marriage........many of us think that they have been underestimated, or they are not getting share they deserve, they think they desrve much more than what they are getting, and they are suffering a lot.....his or her spouse is doing uinjustice with them........but have you ever thought of your spouse? He or she too has the same feelings for you.........neglected, underestimated........and so on. So whenver you think that your spouse is doing injustice, think in his point of view and secondly think that you are suffering because you might have done the same things in your last birth and she or he is taking revenge.........simple.........life will be much happier, If you have married somebody might suffer sometiems or has to take back foot at times, no harm ...dont do it always bt keep peace of your home do it sometimes, is a fact with more than in 90% marriges, cos marriage is first of al adjustment, so accept it...once you accept it, it will be easy to cope up with the situation....what happens we just not accepting the fact and think things will change if we react.....may be sometimes it will but not always and with everybody........aceepting the fact is the key to a successful married life, and you have to nurture it give only love, after few attempts you too will get it back so be positive.......so may be this the key of A HAPPILY MARRIED EVERY AFTER? oh my god m i getting too phylosophical? may yes but still one must learn it if he really wants to be a happily ever after.........
