There is a realtionship website I subscribe to and today the problem was a woman resents her son in law. It seems her son in law cheated on her daughter and left their Family. she's wondering how to cope with having to see him on a daily basis. I agree with the doctor that in front of the kids she should be civil, but i'd get that bastard alone. I'd confront him and tell him what he did was horrible. Don't let that sob get a free pass. I'm not saying to hold a grudge forever, but hold him ACCOUNTABLE. As you can probably already see, I do not forgive and forget easily, but people should be accountable for their actions. Let him have it! I've been married a long time, and I truly believe family is what's most important. Couples should try to work through their differences and not just escape to another world. have a great day all!