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Confused?? It's Complicated !

 

Its said relations are the blessings in disguise for mankind. But has anyone ever wondered what is it we are blessed with. No one does!! And you are right too. Practicality and sane thinking would not let anyone with the required spare time to start this analysis. But if, for once, we can pull ourselves up to see what lies underneath, and not just turn madly and irrationally into speeding machines which are timed for sleep, programmed for love, we might find ourselves not enough happy and knee deep in a stressful responsibilities of so many relations that you might start fearing them.

Now let me ask one thing, people are married, in love, in relation and the list goes on and on and on, right? But what after that? Till you are without someone special in your life, you claim to be single. Then suddenly one day lightning strikes and you are swayed back to your dreamy and mistral ambiance of romantic enchantments, and you start claiming to be in a relationship.

If after, someone ditches you, then you get thrown back. You feel life hit you so hard you could never get up. But we forget the main essence of life that it is build to hit and hit so hard that you can and will realize that after all the day's hard wok, all you are still human!! 

What happens when someone dies - you, your friend, your relatives, your wife, family. Do you still remain in a relation. People get divorced, separated and their Relations Change. people die and relation change. people marry and relations change. All we understand in this world right now is how relations change and the best way to put these feelings into expressive words is RELATIONSHIP STATUS

Frankly speaking, here comes the twist. "Relationship Status". Two simple words - taken straight from the dictionary are capable of putting the entire human urge of feelings and desire in a clear sight. Isn't it just amazing how these two simple yet crazy words, which once were so not used are literally so much in fashion that every third person uses it and the language used to express is just as simple as asking a person, "Hey buddy, what's your name?". Very similar. Just notice the slight change - "Hey, what's your status?". 

Friends, English is such a wonderful language that you can find a word for almost anything. These two small insignificantly significant words have not only tried to bind all the relations but also help us understand them better, as to what fits where.

But are we machines? Don't we need to ask ourselves how can every single feeling, every attachment you have to an entity - be it living or dead - can be just squeezed and fit into these two words. It cant. Nothing can. If it can, then what would be the status of a person who has recently lost his family. God did not create this massive galaxy of relations we tend to, just to be put in two simple words. he just didn't. If he would have then perhaps the simplest yet toughest language that man could have ever attempted to learn would have been the Language of Love.

Death is not the greatest loss you see, the greatest loss is losing a relation while your heart is alive!!

Confused.. So am I and therefore I have gladly accepted the truth that mine is 'Complicated'..!!
Have you asked yourself what's yours??



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