The question is really, do you think you can be with someone who is not as ambitous as you are, yet they meet your every " love need".? 

Let's say you're someone who wants to start your own clothing line. You are going through steps one to one hundred to get everything up and running by the ETA you have set for yourself. But on the flip side you're dating someone who's just " there"so to speak. They are stuck in a job position where they are comfortable, yet complaining. Won't find another job, because they've been there for years, and just doesn't want to move forward with their career goals.  BUT.... BUT... this person is everything in the love department.  They actually exceed your list of wants and needs in that area. For example: ( you like these kinds of things, and this person provides it) : They compliment you, they show you endless affection, the sex is out of this world, they are your number one supporter, they communicate very well, they're intelligent and is a naturally a genuine person.  But their career goals, just can't seem to find their way?  (I currently am not facing such a situation, just aking your thoughts)

Of course in relationships, you can't have everything; and no Relationship is perfect. 

But for me, I'd like to have someone who has the same drive as me. To me Ambition is sexy. Fighting challenges head is a turn on. I don't want to be the only one ranting about my exciting new career move. I want that " same level" type of ambition. I want to build an empire with the one I'm with.

You know that saying " love doesn't pay the bills?"  Well I believe that. I like nice stuff. I like to get my hair and nails done. But more importantly, I would like to lay my head on a comfy bed and pillow at the end of a long day, not a single mattress where we both cannot fit.

I know that two strong heads ( like mine) can also be a problem.  It can end up in the two of us fighting for power. But at the end of the day, I don't want to be the ONLY one bringing home the bigger part of the bacon. 

I wanna to be able to go through the struggle of husting to make it with someone. Not necessarily in the same industry as me. However someone who is fighting to get a place where they want to be. Even if that means climbing up the corporate ladder.  

Could that one thing turn me off. YES. I know myself very well. As I
grew older, I just made it a point of wanting someone who was on the same level as me.  I'm not that high up yet, I'm getting there, and I want that in a partner as well. 

What about you... what do you want? Can you be with someone who doesn't have the same drive or ambition as you do?