We hope you ALL had a wonderful Christmas this year! We have felt blessed this time of the year. We have been very grateful to be able to spend another Christmas with our mom.
We were able to have a Christmas dinner & a party, Christmas Eve, at "Grandma's House". We made it as simple as can be for our mom. She enjoyed having all of her family together at one time. Our family isn't too big, so I don't think it's too overwhelming for her to have us all together.
Jon and I were able to drive together to go pick our mom up for the Christmas party! Our car drives usually look like this. We wear our biggest smiles that we can. This is why I feel like we are blessed! We Smile every time that we are together! It's not just a "do I have to smile?", smile. It's our real, biggest smiles!
Our Christmas changes from last year -
◦ Our mom would open cards up this year, and not understand who they were from or what they said on the cards.
◦ Our mom wasn't as into the TV as she use to be.
◦ Our mom had to have help getting her food plate.
◦ Our mom had to continually use the bathroom and have help.
◦ Our mom had no idea it was December and Christmas during this month. She couldn't associate all of the Christmas decorations with what month it was. She also didn't know the reason why we celebrate Christmas.
Thank you to everyone who sent/gave my mom cards and gifts! She was definitely spoiled.
People with Dementia don't need much. They mostly just need your love, time, and support.
Here is how we party FTD style at our parties! :)
Thank you for your support and thank you for reading our story!
