Have you ever dated anyone that you really enjoy spending time with? You get to a point where seems like the more time you spend with them, the better they get? Then one day, they simply tell you they aren’t interested anymore or even worse, ghost you. This situation absolutely hurts. It brings out all of the insecurities that you have thought in the past. The worst part about it is that you usually don’t know why they lost interest. Our dating experts are here to bring you the answers to what makes a Woman lose interest.

You don’t mentally stimulate her

Women like to feel challenged. They like to know that you will not just be a yes man or be passive about everything. They want to know the deeper parts of your mind and they want to know theirs. If you don’t do anything to try and stimulate her mind, chances are, she will get bored with you which makes a woman lose interest.

You can stimulate her mind by engaging in deep or controversial conversation. Make her think by playing a game or movie. Listen to her when she talks and ask respond with good questions so she knows that you are listening and care. Humor is a great way to mentally stimulate her, come back to her comment with a witty joke. Make her know that there is more to you.

She doesn’t feel an emotional connection

Do you feel like you there is something that just doesn’t, click? Women tend to be much more in tune with their emotions and know if the connection won’t be there with you. Even if you feel something, it has to go both ways. She can have a great time hanging out with you, even sleep with you, and still feel nothing.

You can create an Emotional Connection by caring about her well being. You can also create an emotional connection by giving her attention by making her know that you care about her. One of the factors that make a woman lose interest is when she feels like a man has to be “too cool”. If you open up to her she will do the same and an emotional bond will begin.

Everything becomes a routine

A routine dating life is something that makes a woman lose interest fast. When you start to go to the same places, you have the same conversations, the same sex, everything is the same. You need to spice up your relationship by doing something spontaneous. Think of something she loves, maybe her favorite band is playing in town or there’s a sports team that she a fan of. There are a lot of easy ways to impress her. Surprise her by getting her tickets. This will show both that you listen to her and pay attention to what she enjoys.

She is questioning you

Do you show that you are interested in her and actively pursuing her? No matter what stage you are at, women still like to be chased. If she feels like you are not giving the same effort as her then she will start to distance herself before she gets hurt. If you think she is questioning you, the best thing to do is reassure her of how you feel.

She’s met someone else

If she suddenly became distant, there is a possibility that she has just simply met someone else. In this situation there is not much you can do. Let her go, and if she doesn’t come back you were not meant to be. If she does return back to you then you must treat her right or else she will question herself and question you.

You’re always negative

Do you complain a lot? Could she perceive you as being judgmental? No one likes these things in a relationship and if they feel this, then they will probably lose interest fast. Negative people bring a bad vibe to any type of relationship. You might think that you are “being real with her”, but is that at the expense of her feelings? You need to be appreciative of her and grateful in your day to day life. She wants someone who is going to encourage her not discourage her.

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