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everything is NOT fair in Love and War.

Tags: love fair hatred
By,
Shubham Srivastava.

              Limited truth is known as myth and limitless truth defines itself as eternal truth. ''EVERYTHING IS Fair IN Love AND WAR'' has created more hatred in this world. Whoever said it in past, perhaps an anonymous, one thing is damn sure that he/she was an emotional fool. It must have been produced by a subjective mind, it can never be product of an objective mind.

                ''EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR''. This quote or this phrase or this saying, whatever it is. It doesn't matter. What matters the most is that this line has been the base of all the violences. How can it be fair to win in war on the cost of destruction and inhuman activities. Being the most evolved species, isn't it our duty to save this planet, humanity and other beings. Life is subtle and so are we. We have to understand it. Nothing is fair even if a very small destruction is done in the name of love and war. Peace should be our ultimate destination. If we get peace, we will eventually get love and no wars. How beautiful that world will be?

                Whenever we do any wrong then the first thought which hits our mind is that i haven't done anything wrong and after all  ''EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR''. We console ourselves and take ourselves forward to do more wrong to anyone or any community and if this is called a fair decision then i don't want it. I don't want to gain something on the cost of someone's massive loss or a small loss. In games, one has to lose but in life we can still live happily without loss of either sides.

                  I have an idea. If someone is treating you well or you are found very loving to him/her then you should also do the same with your very heart but if it is not happening your way then leave it. Isolate yourself from that person. Strive for something or someone else. There is no need to hate a person or causing a damage to that person just because he/she is not living up on your expectations or you are not being treated as you want. I am pretty sure that you will never cause damage but i don't know about your hatred. It seems like you start to hate if things or person not going your way. If you love someone then it gives you happiness because happiness is happening inside you. If you hate someone then it causes pain and it is also happening inside you. Then if both are happening inside you and both are your choices then why are you choosing the hatred over love. If you can't choose love then choose nothing. Hatred should never be an option available to you. Something that is causing damage to your inner self. How can you even rely on that? 

                   ''EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR'' . It will lead to massive destruction if third world war happens because this time, not only Hiroshima and Nagasaki but whole world will be affected by the nuclear weapons and nuclear war because no one wants to lose.

But it's okay to loose if it stops damage
       it's okay to loose if it saves humanity
       it's okay to loose if it brings peace
       it's okay to loose if it saves our planet
       it's okay to loose if it changes someone's life in a better way
       it's okay to loose if it makes you a winner
              it's okay to loose if it doesn't change your world but changes someone else's forever.
              it's okay to loose if it brings yourself more closer to you
       it's okay to loose if  you have nothing but you still feel that you have enough for yourself.

and never forget that just because you didn't love someone the way they wanted, that's why you are not being loved the way you want.

      It's time to change your perception so that we can be that change which we want to change in this world. Promise yourself that you are not going to hate or damage something or someone just because things are not happening your way. Isolate yourself from everything that doesn't give you happiness but also forget hatred because

 ''EVERYTHING IS NOT FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR'' 
       


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