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A love or a breakup story?

Some stories are so strange.Neither a common man nor an expert can judge those stories so easily.This is one such a Story for me.Actually planned to be a plain one without twists and turns.Then, at times feeling the hollowness of not having twists and turns like many of the Love movies portray.However, most of the times, you plan something and life plans something else for you.
The story 
A girl and a boy enter into a relationship without exchanging roses or without saying I LOVE YOU to each other.They chat occasionally with each other and most of the time it is the bliss, of a young love that they felt, though independent of each other.It is not the person but the feeling of love that gave happiness to both of them.On those occasional chattings, all they do is make promises to each other and feel the voice and the presence of the other.That was enough and that gave happiness.
Days passed, and only days passed.
The feeling of love and the desire to live together is getting strengthened in the girl.She is a girl of dreams and ambitions.Her ability to imagine things overshadowed her understanding of reality.She loved the boy truly, sincerely, not the real one but the one in her imagined reality.He is a boy with all those qualities she liked.She cannot be blamed for it.Cause that is a long distance relationship and this is how things work.As her intellectual and emotional learnings grow day by day, the boy of her imagined reality transformed into a man of perfect persona.
They are man and woman now.So those occasions where they can talk to each other grew and they started to understand each other in reality.The girl got confused.However, she tried to erase her imagination and the love for it.She tried to learn to love the real him. But the things did not work well, the boy got frustrated by the behavior of girl.Now, it is not like "I will do anything for you attitude".It has vanished long back.Every trial of the girl to learn her boy and love him acted counterproductively.It increased doubt in the mind of the girl-"Is he a right man for me?"
The break-up drama begins
The boy hastily proposed a breakup.And the girl got shattered by it.It felt like she got an answer-" he is not the right man".She agreed to it.But deep inside, her heart is crying and yelling in silence.It might be the same for the boy too.After all, it isThe girl did not realize that things can be so plain like that.Promises have no meaning and feelings are just another pass time.Every day before going to bed she reconstructs all her past analyses it ......sometimes cries over it, acts over it and this happened for years.
a long distance relationship and so they could not feel the pain of each other.The boy gave an opportunity for the time to heal him.He tried many other girls, got into a relationship.But the girl got struck at that point.Often creating and recreating the break -up dialogues over her mind and analyzing her and his mistakes.Time strengthened her love in fact.She imagined her grieving boy and was desperate to go to him and console him.Though she deleted his number, she remembers it, so tried calling him at weak moments, only to get his wrath.
The other side of the story is, as I already mentioned, the boy found a girl and was happy though for a short period.When the girl found that he has moved on, it relieved her from the cage of guiltiness she built for herself that, she betrayed him.However, this did not live long.The boy has got another breakup, approached the girl again.The girl got to believe his words if they have to restart a relationship.But she could not believe his words.Afterall, he approached her after his break up.So the break-up continued along with all the sorrow it brought to the girl.Those cycles of imagination-and -action continued and the same mixed results followed.However these days the girl learned the art of healing herself.She gave way for the time to heal everything.She decided to bury her past.She decided to kill all the questions in her mind about her past.Restrained herself from acting on her thoughts and seems to recover.This seems like an end to the story.But the problem is, this is the case so many times.Every end was a new beginning in their break-up story!!!!



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