The past couple of years have been hard on many friends of mine. While each story is different, there are similarities to most divorces. I’ve experienced heartbreak many times throughout my life and feel it with each one of my friends as they transition into their new life. When it comes to our friends, we often read between the lines and see things others can’t. To my Divorced friends… I am here for you. I remember the day you first brought up the dreaded “d” word. We talked (again) about the things that did and didn’t work. We talked about the good times and bad and tried to joke our way through it. I watched your face when the reality of the situation set in. I’ve seen you both excited and fearful for what the future may hold. I’ve been there on your good days when the excitement of being single was exhilarating and new. I watched your confidence, self-esteem and wardrobe grow. I felt joy seeing your relaxed and playful side come out again. I listen to you on your bad days, but see so much more. I see that new found confidence and self-esteem drain out of you like it never existed. You are tired, overwhelmed and emotionally spent. You wonder if you can go on like this. The uncertainty of tomorrow is unbearable and the loneliness is sometimes suffocating. I see you when you’re angry. So angry that the words turn into tears and those tears become one more burden you can’t bear. To my divorced friends… I see you. I share your joy and feel your pain. You are not a failure or disappointment. When I’m busy and life keeps me away, know that I am still with you. You are never alone.

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