Oh, hello mother-to-be!  Do you think having a Baby is easy work?  No honey, it take hours of selflessness and overcoming challenges to accomplish your goals with your child.  Not only does it begin with the changing of the diapers but continues with late night feeding and cries for attention.  Does this mean you have to sacrifice yourself in order to teach your child about the world?  No.  You must bluntly set times for yourself in order to move forward of taking care of yourself as well.  For example, when the baby is crying, they often just need a nap.  You have fed them, pampered them, changed their poopy diaper and all you need is to put on your lipstick.  Well go ahead woman, you birthed the child!

What is a baby without bantering and frustration?  That's no life for any Parent because you get used to hearing the crying, whining and expectations of perfection.  You will push yourself too hard as a parent.  You will cry and have pain but this only means that you deserve more than what you give yourself credit for.  A spa day, a night out with your hubby and a bottle of wine or a spirited getaway retreat.  Either way, always make time for yourself.  Even if this means taking eight hours to find the most prudent, resourceful, responsible babysitter you know of.

In every Parenting partnership, there are limits to the amount of fun you can have.  Taking time to appreciate each other is vital and putting an emphasis on your childs education too.  Babies begin learning what we know the instant they are brought into this world.  Make sure you provide the best care you can, including positive emotional development and vocabulary.  *It takes two baby, it takes two baby, me and you.*

A caring, loving parent understands that alone time is an essential part of healthy parenting.  Do I mean rush out the door every time you get without your child?  Once again, this is a hell no!  Babies need fresh air too and you must always try to show them the world with your perspective and a car seat that is up-to-date.  Never let the fear of your child facing other people stop you from being an outstanding caregiver.

As a lasting emphasis on what I have previously stated in this article, just be yourself; point blank. Teach your child what you know to be true, honest and brave.  Never let self doubt stop you from helping them grow and learn.  Also, show them that respecting and admiring your own confidence levels is important to growing in the world.  Take all of this into perspective and your parenting will improve tremendsouly.