Lets face it - "there are No Right Or Wrong Answers" as we are all doing the best we can - maybe that may be full-time/part-time whatever it maybe. 

Yes it maybe my way instead of yours but it works for me... that is the key if you find something that works keep going with it.  Look its great getting advice from people - that is when you ask for it - as there are many a person out there that wants to tell you - which is nice of them to share- but I think  you need to clsoe off (shut off like men do) sometimes.

There is so much good advice out there - its just a filtering system - taking in bits and pieces when it suits and in your own time try it out!!

We are lucky as there are heaps of books out there - again if we choose to read them - gosh I had been given a few (god oh mighty they are heavy!) to date skimmed through what I have needed at the time - but hey have managed so far........look she is now 18 months and she is alive and kicking - god bless her.