2018-06-29 14:58
By Javinne J.McCoy
As we began to mature and accept our personal truth about where we are in our lives (i.e. our results or lack thereof), it becomes less about looking “out there&rdq&helli…Read More
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Discover Your Lover Within
2018-06-19 17:27
By Javinne J. McCoy
As I continue to evolve along my journey, I’ve noticed it has become easier to release the people, places, and things in life that are just not going to work for m… Read More
2018-06-08 14:39
By Javinne J. McCoy
Update: It has been sometime between the last post and now.
Lately I have struggled to balance writing consistently with the major transition I just underwent- my reloc… Read More
2018-04-30 16:15
By Javinne J. McCoy
Some days ago, I received an email comment from a regular reader of the LA Blog. It read:
“How long did it take for you to truly be yourself again after Mr. SMS? I… Read More
2018-04-13 17:53
Quick Note: A thank you to all of you who read the LA Blog, comment, and send emails. It really inspires me to continue writing and to know that although the LA Blog has a small audience, i… Read More
2018-03-19 18:11
By Javinne J. McCoy
Life speaks to us all. Life speaks daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly. Life speaks to us by the second, by the minute, and by the hour. The big question is “Are w… Read More
2018-03-05 12:00
Update Note To Readers:
First, Happy New Year all.
I haven’t posted a post since April 2017.
Why?
Well, let’s just say life had a few more personal life lessons to teach me ab… Read More
2017-04-08 19:35
By Javinne J. McCoy
It’s time for another Facts of Life post.
If I were to extract the life themes that have presented themselves in my personal journey within the past 6 months, they… Read More
2017-03-31 12:43
By Javinne J. McCoy
Rant Switch ON!
The very folk who you think have the power to make or break your unhappiness, all while treating you like poo from the bottom of their shoes, will… Read More
2017-03-28 13:17
By Javinne J. McCoy
Warning! This post is Real T (truth) and may stir some ISH up.
This is not a twirling about the meadows post, but a truth serum post, with the added benefit of fee… Read More
2017-03-17 11:46
By Javinne J. McCoy
If we are to make an honest commitment to get healthy, clear out the the unhealthy relationship cob webs, break old habits and patterns, experience change, stop reactiva… Read More
2017-02-25 17:22
By Javinne J. McCoy
Update: Got caught up this week. So this is a Facts of Life Friday, the Saturday Edition. Nonetheless I think it appropriate for some food for thought and a weekend real… Read More
2017-02-18 03:52
By Javinne J. McCoy
I’m a bit late (Friday night) with Facts of life Friday, but here is a nite cap post.
The LA Blog is about change-changing our relationship with ourselves, and the… Read More
2017-02-14 16:06
By Javinne J. McCoy
Back in 2014, I posted a post The Loveantics’ Valentine’s Day Guide for Singles: 10 Love Notes. In short, it was basically a reality checker for singles to w… Read More
2017-02-14 16:06
By Javinne J. McCoy
Back in 2014, I posted a post The Loveantics’ Valentine’s Day Guide for Singles: 10 Love Notes. In short, it was basically a reality checker for singles to w… Read More
2017-02-12 21:18
By Javinne J. McCoy
Getting over an Ex is arguably one of the most popular relationship search terms on Google (Heck, I am even trying to rank for it as a long-tail keyword in this post. Ch… Read More
2017-02-10 13:33
By Javinne J. McCoy
This Facts of Life Friday post is all about how we can shift our perceptions when ending an unhealthy relationship with someone, move away from reactivation (allowing… Read More
2017-02-08 14:07
By Javinne J. McCoy
Throughout my past “career” in dealing with EUPs, Unavailables, Jerks, Narcs (Narcissists), in friendship context or romantic paring context, I have be… Read More
2017-02-05 17:57
Sometimes letting go is the only way to grow!
-By Javinne J. McCoy
Before we get into this post on letting go , I just want to provide background on Song of the day Sunday (Reflectio… Read More
2017-02-03 14:13
By Javinne J. McCoy
When someone hurts you, it hurts. It’s supposed to, because they hurt us, they have caused us pain. When someone with whom we desire a relationship rejects u… Read More
2017-02-03 14:13
By Javinne J. McCoy
When someone hurts you, it hurts. It’s supposed to, because they hurt us, they have caused us pain. When someone with whom we desire a relationship rejects us, wit… Read More
2017-02-01 05:26
By Javinne J. McCoy
When we keep cycling on the unavailable, unhealthy, and painful relationship hamster wheel, it’s all too common to think we are under a cosmic curse or merely havi… Read More
2017-01-29 16:35
By Javinne J. McCoy
If I had a penny for every time I’ve heard (or experienced) the unrequited love stories and the Love Antics of emotionally unavailable folk and commitment p… Read More
2017-01-25 12:54
By Javinne J. McCoy
For Part 1: Click Here
Why Would They Say “I Love You or I am Falling in Love” only to Pull Away, Withdraw and Withhold Love?
1. The for the Mome… Read More
2017-01-21 20:56
By Javinne J. McCoy
Understanding the love games and Love Antics of emotionally unavailable folk and why we get “sucked in”, is crucial to breaking free of the unhealthy relatio… Read More
2017-01-13 13:26
By Javinne J. McCoy
Emotionally unavailable relationships dynamics can be super insidious. In all emotionally unavailable relationships there are familiar features and common themes that po… Read More
2017-01-01 20:33
By Javinne J. McCoy
Side Note: It has been a while since I last posted an article-an understatement.
What can I say? Life happens. Anyway, let’s jump right back into where I left off… Read More
2016-06-11 02:33
By Javinne J. McCoy
Have you ever wondered why you may seem to have a string of unhealthy relationships with the same person but different package?
You know the drill :
They do the Hot Purs… Read More
2016-05-16 06:13
Alert! This is going to be a long series so strap on in!
I have been reviewing past articles on the LA Blog as I prepare to hire an editor to fine-tune my content. When I first started the… Read More
2016-04-24 21:55
By Javinne J. McCoy
It is unbelievable and extraordinary the things EUPs will say to whomever they are involved with. Some of the statements and comments they make to the people they are da… Read More
2016-04-06 01:58
By Javinne J. McCoy
Update: Although I don’t post as frequently as I would like to or as I use to, I am never short of day-to-day insights about emotionally unavailable folk that swir… Read More
2016-01-21 15:09
It’s been awhile since the last post. If you are wondering if I am still here, I am still here. However, I realize it is becoming increasing difficult to balance writing… Read More
2015-12-08 13:53
By Javinne J. McCoy
For Part 2 Click Here.
If you want to get off the Pity Pot of your emotional pain, the first step entails being able to identify the symptoms of your pain.
Ask yourself… Read More
2015-11-18 10:47
By Javinne J. McCoy
My Pain “Aha Moment”
Pain sucks at first. Often you don’t get to see the immediate benefit of your emotional war wounds and healing your pain-gro… Read More
2015-11-13 14:13
Why Guys Don’t Text Back
By Nick Bastion/Vixen Daily
The question, “Why didn’t he text me back?” comes up over and over again – and it’s pretty obvious w… Read More
2015-11-11 23:53
By Javinne J. McCoy
The time has come. You have a man on your Love Radar-finally. Maybe you have been dating him for some time now and you are ready to move things along- progress the cours… Read More
2015-11-04 23:53
By Javinne J. McCoy
It’s been said that time heals all wounds. I do not believe this to be true. I believe that YOU decide when YOU want to heal your emotional pain. I also believe th… Read More
2015-10-21 17:37
By Javinne J. McCoy
How do you know if a relationship is an incompatible and an unhealthy system? One clue is when you have to FORCE the hell out of something to the point where it drains y… Read More
2015-10-14 12:01
If you have a pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable men, women, and/or friends and you want to BREAK the unhealthy pattern, first you need to examine your pattern, and get brutally… Read More
2015-10-14 11:59
Update Announcements/Notes: As of late, my time has been spent building my career- interning, studying, passing state exams for professional credentialing, and The Doozy –sending out… Read More
2015-08-03 16:08
Welcome to part 2 of The Grey Zone: The Role of Ambivalence in Emotional Unavailability. For part 1, click here.
As stated previously, once you can answer whether or not you are in the Grey… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
One of the many screwy dynamics of emotionally unavailable relationships is that there is always one partner who is doing more of the loving, giving, wanting to deal with emotions, making am… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Welcome to Part 2 of What is your Positive Slant? How to See Your Breakup as a Breakthrough. It is OVA! You now have to face the reality that this person is not your “soul mate”… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
Within the last few weeks, I have been really “digging deep”. On the Loveantics blog, I often use the phrase “digging deep” to emphasize how important it is to do qua… Read More
2006-06-07 11:16
A few nights ago on Netflix, I watched a documentary called Unmatched (an ESPN Film). The documentary gives a candid account of the fiery tennis rivalry between superstar woman tennis… Read More
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