History has a way of molding itself into what is to come.
Whatever happens now, is most likely shaping the near future.
Sometime after 30, there was a valuable lesson that has carried me nearly to this point. A side street veers left and it tells you "you gotta stop blaming others for what your life is." There is a real sense of scapegoating for years, blame someone else for the actions I took upon myself, and unless you get off the ride, you could blame and point fingers all the way to rehab, foreclosure, divorce, depression , 500 pounds, should I go on ( Third Side Note, not all of those apply to self but I've been a real sad fatty at times). I found myself in several terrible situations where I verbally admitted someone else got me to this point. The actions of the past made me do reckless things , and I could keep doing them as long as he was the villain. I sense that whatever I choose to do with my life now, how I take care of my mental playground, even more so than my physical, will alter what is to come. While its not rocket science, there is a real alarming take on what I choose to do with my life. Maybe the career I lived and breathed by isn't as large, or maybe the priorities with how much down time I take, what I do with it, and where I go matter more as they will carry me that much further in the time ahead.
There is of course a cause and affect to every thing, and things are forever shaping us. Some are easier to overcome and some take years of hard work to get past. The idea that what I type now, or say tomorrow, changes the thought process and systematically reroutes the plan inches to the left or right.
The framework of what I want depends on every single decision I make in the now. Friendships I would have sat in for years now are ended quicker or changed faster, as they may destroy ahead. Its a hypersensitive drivers seat and in that vehicle, whatever you do in it .... is totally connected to what has already been done but mailable, tangible , to what you do today.