She wondered why her dress didn’t fit the same way it did to the cover model, how her hips were taking too much space for the dress to even fit-in in the first place. Why her eyelashes weren’t long enough to bat in a flirtatious way, to capture the boy who was on display. Showing off to those other girls and she wondered why he didn’t notice her, wondering why he didn’t Love her.

Scrolling through her timeline discovering all those big smiles, what should she do to gain that exact same lifestyle? What could she do to be beautiful like that?

She hated herself for a long time I could see it in her eyes, the way she wandered off to a place that wasn’t real life. She’s beautiful I tell you, but she just doesn’t seem to see it herself. How could she doubt, how could she hate if God loves her no matter what others say?

Never lose yourself due to other peoples lifestyle, you are beautiful just the way you are. Embrace your skin, your face, your body type because no one can love you as much besides God and yourself to live a Wonderful Lifestyle.

A wonderful lifestyle for me is when you can learn from your mistakes and scars along the way, these lessons will shape you into a beautiful woman, my ladies and no one can take that away from you! Let your hair down, leave your make-up at home and admire your body and embrace your natural beauty. And after loving the image, which is you that God created, go on and love your neighbors as yourself.

Songs to boost your confidence: 

• Jorja Smith – Beautiful Little Fools
• Jorja Smith – Teenage Fantasy
• Mahalia – 17
• Solange – Don’t Touch My Hair

xo, Gely