I wanted to do something different. I wanted to change my life from the mundane to something exciting and adventurous. I wanted to find my loophole where I could enjoy making a living. I wanted to be more heard than seen because to me, the voices that have the volume on blast in my head were actually making a lot of sense. 

So, I woke up one day and decided it was the beginning of my ‘Coming Undone to Become.” 

I was going to write my way into a successful career as a Content Writer, Blogger, Idea Developer and Business Woman.

Midway through this very first year; I have been knocked around by lots and lots of rude awakenings. I’m telling you if I wasn’t as strong as I have become at this point in life; I would have shut down my laptop and gone right back into the Corporate World. The thing is…I really don’t fit in there. The boxes/departments inhibit my growth. I don’t take direction very well (especially from miseducated people). I have all the knowledge, but I just DON’T like the actual role of “Standard Employee.”

So what was I supposed to do? Resign and get up out of there and figure out a career that kept me enthusiastic and happy?

Yessssssss. Exactly.

So, I did jus that. I stopped taking what I was given in order to get what I want!

Now, let me just say this: I have failed at this process several times since I started in June of last year. I was in a rush to establish things instead of taking the time to learn the true concept of blogging as a business and not just a hobby. Then, I tried to do everything “by the book.” I tried to follow all the “How Tos” to a tee without realizing that is absolutely NOT how you establish your place in this web-world.

I needed to learn from the experts, yet establish my own identity. No one ever became a Master by duplicating exactly what someone else was doing. So, I had to find out what my “thing” was.

Exactly 12 months later, today, June 17, 2017, I am here and finally settled into the idea of who I am and how I will fit into this world. It entails a lot of work and going to unfathomable measures to validate my brand. If you’ve ever read any of my posts, you’ll see that I’ve changed so much over a short period of time. At first, I thought that was a bad thing then I realized, no honey, that’s an EVO-REVOLUTIONARY thing! 

So, today, I have some answers to questions not asked yet. I’m proactive. I want to meet the world before it meets me. 

Who is Tuesday White and WHY in the World Am I Here?

I’m here because I write a lot, talk a lot and think a lot. I’m here because I read a lot and enjoy sharing information. I’m here because I understand business and development. I’m here because I have stories and lots and lots of insight. I’m here because blogging stimulates my whole being!

I’m here to make a living. Yes, we bloggers have ways and means of making our websites profitable. This isn’t a post about that. I’ll get to that when I go viral and break the internet a little. 

This is a post about my purpose and what I have to offer. 

I started out strictly writing about Life Lessons and Self Improvement. I wanted to tell stories to make Women laugh, think and to empower them. I wanted to share honestly the less attractive things about myself to drive the point home that NO ONE is hopeless. I wanted to reflect on what I learned through experience and share that journey. I initially named my site “Contemporary Insight for Women” and it was a hit among the Ladies.

Still, it wasn’t enough. I wanted this Self Improvement thing to be business-worthy. I know I’m worth more than just a few shares and comments. I KNOW I have some greatness in me that needs to be shared with the world. 

So, I expanded, rebranded and demanded a bigger spot. My site is now called “Everything for Women” because I want to encompass all of that! What I’ve done is create a wider space because I have a lot more than just Self-Improvement to offer. I have business knowledge and other areas of interest that are share-worthy for women. I’m enthusiastic about Lifestyle and Travel. I like nice things. I know a little about Love and Relationships and I’m excited about learning much more.

So, my name is Tuesday and I’m a 37-year-old Mother of two with an “attitude”, great sense of humor, and a really great outlook on life as it is and as I want it to be. I flourish when it comes to sarcasm, also. Yet, all in all, I’m like Anne of Green Gables, a kindred spirit who sometimes finds trouble, but mostly works for the greater good. You’ll probably learn even more about through the things I haven’t written yet. Trust me, I have a lot going on in my life, so it’s going to get really interesting.

I have two girls.  

Mona Maria, my oldest is an 18-year-old College Freshman at St. John’s University & The College of St. Benedict in St. Joseph, MN.  

Ellie Sanaa is….well, she’s due to get here in August. So, yes, I’m having a baby soon! 

This website is my home. It’s all about my personal growth and the kind of women I want my girls to be. Yes, that’s how I think of it. I came to the conclusion that in order for me to make it as great as it should be; I have to make it about me giving the very best I have to offer. I have my life experiences, my research skills, my business training and the resilient heart and mind of a Self-Made Girl Boss (more to come on this trending movement).

This site is still growing because I’m still growing. If you subscribe or follow me, you’ll see the subtle changes over time. I’ve added a lot. In the beginning, I only had a blog page. I’ve not opened it up to subscribers, and have added a few pages with the intention of adding more content. 

I’ve added a lot. In the beginning, I only had a blog page. I’ve now opened it up to subscribers, and have added a few pages with the intention of adding more content. 

Here’s what’s there now:

SELF-IMPROVEMENT

It must be obvious that I’ve been making a lot of changes by being honest about my past. It wasn’t easy writing some of these posts because it required me to actually DO better seeing that I knew better. That is what growth does; it opens you up and breaks you apart in order to move you to the next level.

Without Regret – Here I wrote about letting of the past as all it does it weighs us down. Sometimes holding on to the past means that we hold on to insecurities and other self-esteem issues. I had to learn this the hard way and that lesson for me is tied to one of grief.

No Rehearsals  – This is the nice side of life. No pretense. No cowardice. No rehearsals. What you see is what you get. Experience will bring out the most authentic you.

The Sister’s Keeper Formula – Coming to terms with KEEPING yourself before you can KEEP anyone else. I came up with “The Sister’s Keeper Formula” as a way of constructing a strategy to maximize on this role that many of us want to play. It is time to have an honest conversation with ourselves about who we are, who we say we are and who we would like to be.

Two Tears In A Bucket – There will always be your bit of advice, that song, and this memory to realign me whenever I fall off. I don’t drink Anejo these days, but I do know my way around a good distilled vodka. I don’t worry so much about boys anymore either. They will be who they are until their very own rude awakenings break them apart to build something better. 

3 Key Things I’m Doing To Change My Life –  On the day that I left my very last corporate office job, I entered the building on a mission. I wanted my life to change. I was leaving this job for something better.

You are NOT a victim of circumstance you’ve created – This is a lesson of accountability. It has made me make better choices based on standards that I prescribe. Accountability means that I’ve been taking the time to learn who I am and what I need to be better. Accountability means control.

5 Steps To Stop Yourself From Acting Like a B* **h – It’s time to strip away all the layers of “fluff” painted on over years to conceal the issues and be more. Simply, one must stop acting like a bitch!

LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS

What I Know About Love – Someday, when you’ve come full circle, you won’t even realize how time has soothed the stinging and kept your heart still and steady through the worst of it. You will just find yourself in love again with someone else. 

It’s a resilient and beautiful thing. It is the brick after brick meant to build your character and evolve your mind. Love is the wealth of life. Don’t ever discount it. 

What Is Love and How Do I Do It? – Confront all of your demons and be completely real about who you are. Then use these 4 Principles to figure out what love is and how to do it.

WOMEN IN BUSINESS

Health Insurance For Women – What You Should Know & Understand About Your Health Care Benefits

I added the last category “Women In Business” because we all know that “adulting” isn’t easy. Yet, it’s one of those things that we MUST grasp in order for all the goodness in our lives to fall in place. 

Right now, I’m smack in the middle of writing a post on Annuities and what women should know when considering investing in them. 

I just had to stop and write this. I just wanted to raise an awareness about who I am and what I’m doing.

So, in the great big world of blogging and Girl Bossiness, here I am, all humble and eager to learn and share. You can email me if you like what I’m doing at [email protected] or you can simply subscribe and follow my posts.

It’s all up to you.

I’m just happy to be here, (even though Trump is President :/) and I look forward to so much more!!!

— Tuesday

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