So the boys of Pakistan have been pretty famous lately e.g. #ChaiWala story or the poll about being at number 3 for Handsome Boys in the World list, but to make sure that they can live up to their reputation in the news; I would like to point out 3 things that make the boys of this country, extremely annoying for girls here;

I have seen one thing in common about guys in my friend list, which is almost non-existent in girls. And that is sending Facebook messages to every girl in your friend list after max 2-3 months to know what she is up to. Come on guys, it is not necessary to do that! Even my best of friends who are girls don’t do that. Even if you go on your “Other” folder, all of the messages are from BOYS. That needs to stop seriously.

Stalking has many forms such as staring or keeping an eye on someone on social media.  It annoys the hell out of women particularly being stared at constantly from boys at local shops, streets etc. If caught, it destroys your image forever!

I must not forget to mention that with the new Cyber Law, you can actually go to jail or suffer huge fines if caught blackmailing a girl or anybody on social media. So guys!! BEWARE

I get extremely annoyed when boys comment on Facebook pointing out girls to sit at home, “Rotiyan pakaen etc. (Cook Homemade chapattis).” and these are the type of guys who feel humiliated even if they have to drink a glass of water all by themselves by walking up to kitchen. Dear such boys! please pay a visit to western countries where you dream to go or even get a glimpse on the life of Prophet Muhammad (SAW), and you will realize that no work is a MAN’s or WOMAN’s work particularly.

Likewise if your sister, wife or mom is a working woman, do not have this pathetic perception that they should do each and every of your stupid task when they come back home e.g. bringing a glass of water for you. Rather start developing Habit of surprising them and DO THEIR TASKS ;-)

PS. Please take it for light humor and remember that not all boys in Pakistan have these Annoying Habits, it was only directed to the guys who need improvement in these traits.

Hope you guys have enjoyed it. Please also remember that it is very likely for these habits to exist in women or men of any other country or culture.

Thanks for reading.

Best Wishes

Maha