All of us are Born as cute innocent babies,untouched,unscathed by the ravages of time.When we are born we have zero experience of what the world holds for us ,what happiness and grief people are capable enough to bring us.What we love and whom we love is made by the free interactions we have with people and things.But ironically we do not Realize so often that people are all not what we believe them to be.We do not realize that people change with time ,experiences and interaction.They change for their own good or their own destruction.And once they have changed they cannot go back to be what they used to be ,they have changed forever.That tiny word or action that another would have told you have set things in motion,we the innocent child no longer stay innocent.As we pass through life we know what it is to love,to loose,to feel resentment,anger ,pain,sadness,happiness and jelousy.We no longer remain carefree despite wanting to,we no longer know the nestled arm of our parents although we feel the need to.As they say life screws us all.Yet the best thing remains to enjoy and appreciate the good moments and the good people we come across.




Its easy to say its gonna be ok when bad things happen but are they really?If they are also will they remain so?These are questions we often ask ourselves but do we really know the answers?Im not sure .One thing which my mother told me comes to my mind "they're is no burden our creator gives us which we cannot handle".Literal translation we are engineered to overcome all issues that come into our life .There is nothing in life that you cannot achieve with good faith and courage.Just believe....
There are going to be moments where you feel you cannot do it but you indeed can if you believe.

They say as we grow older we grow a little bit wiser .Indeed we do but we also get disillusioned about people and things .We suddenly understand people don't really care about us as much as we believe them to.We know we just have a few people ready to jump in front of a bullet for you.You realize as kids you said the whole class were friends with you,out of that say one or two have stuck around so long.We realize that people at times use you for their own benefit ,they treat you well to get what they want.

We know all this and we become quite afraid to trust people ,we don't know what can be done.We often don't understand who are the good ones and who are the bad .When we think we have understood we find out actually haven't.Its all a balancing act .Its all about taking calculated risks .Its about trusting someone because they're unlikely to stab you in the back ,although they may end up doing it as well.
Most of all its about leading a life fully as possible knowing the pitfalls you may encounter .Just as people do surgery knowing the possible complications ....