I would linger on that question, what leads to this question is borne out of the following:
1. Lack of trust: One or both of the parties do not trust the other partner, they actually come up with stories of mistrusts.
2. Lack of communication: This should have come up before the first point, the partners involved do not seem to communicate rightly, they always assume that the other knows what they are talking about, what they are doing, etc, so they think their partners understands them fully.
The other points are needed from your contributions, I would like to state it out in next post.
If we are experiencing that we really do need a Divorce we should go through the books by the sides.
